Episode 13: Managing Your Mental Health

Episode 13: Managing Your Mental Health

Author: CMHA Kelowna and Jessica Samuels May 8, 2025 Duration: 22:44

In this episode, hosts Jessica Samuels and Mike Gawliuk unpack what it really means to “manage your mental health” — and how that differs from managing mental illness. Together, they explore everyday actions, habits, and mindset shifts that can help anyone take better care of their mental well-being, with a strong focus on understanding why these strategies work.


 Key Topics Discussed:

  • Mental Health vs. Mental Illness
    Learn the critical distinction between having mental health (which we all do) and having a mental illness (a diagnosable condition). You can flourish or struggle with mental health — whether or not you have a diagnosis.
  • Self-Care vs. Self-Soothing
    Not all “feel-good” actions are created equal. Mike and Jessica break down how to tell the difference: if it leaves you better after the fact, it’s self-care; if not, it may just be a momentary self-soothe.
  • Tips & Tools for Everyday Mental Health
    From evidence-backed strategies to lived experience, they dive into:
    • Nature and Exercise – How time outdoors and movement regulate stress and mood.
    • Volunteering & Social Connection – Combat loneliness, build purpose, and improve emotional health.
    • Pets – How furry companions promote mindfulness, routine, and connection.
    • Kindness & Gratitude – Backed by science, simple acts can lift your mood and even boost your lifespan.
  • Empowerment Through Action
    The episode emphasizes that managing mental health is not about perfection but about finding tools that support you — and using them regularly.

Key Takeaways:

  • “Mental health is like physical health — we all have it.”
  • “Self-care is not selfish — it’s necessary.”
  • “Seventeen minutes in nature can make a measurable difference.”
  • “Acts of kindness can be more effective than therapy.”

**Resources 

Self-care

https://www.snhu.edu/about-us/newsroom/health/what-is-self-care

https://cmha.ca/news/self-care-simplified-why-its-essential-and-how-to-make-it-happen/#:~:text=Regular%2C%20quality%20self%2Dcare%20has,symptoms%20of%20anxiety%20and%20depression.&text=It%20can%20also%20help%20build,life's%20many%20stressors%20and%20challenges.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-deeper-wellness/202302/understanding-the-mental-health-and-self-care-connection


VS self-soothe

https://blog.ab.bluecross.ca/lifestyle/focus-on-you-self-care-versus-self-soothe/

https://urbanwellnesscounseling.com/self-care-vs-self-soothing/


Nature

https://namica.org/blog/mental-health-benefits-of-nature/

https://news.stanford.edu/stories/2015/06/hiking-mental-health-063015

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4204431/

https://mcpress.mayoclinic.org/mental-health/the-mental-health-benefits-of-nature-spending-time-outdoors-to-refresh-your-mind/

https://www.discoverycollegekelowna.com/courses-workshops/nature-mental-health-part-1

Exercise

https://www.helpguide.org/wellness/fitness/the-mental-health-benefits-of-exercise

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/more-evidence-that-exercise-can-boost-mood

https://mentalhealthcommission.ca/blog-posts/57251-move-to-boost-your-mental-health/

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/more-evidence-that-exercise-can-boost-mood

Volunteering

https://cmhato.org/news/7-reasons-why-volunteering-is-good-for-our-mental-health/

https://www.nami.org/people/how-volunteering-improves-mental-health/

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10902-020-00242-8

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/the-recovery-coach/202407/the-mental-and-physical-health-benefits-of-volunteering

Connection

https://ccare.stanford.edu/uncategorized/connectedness-health-the-science-of-social-connection-infographic/

https://bc.cmha.ca/news/social-connection-is-the-cure/

https://www.cdc.gov/social-connectedness/about/index.html

Pets

https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/a-z-topics/pets-and-mental-health

https://health.ucdavis.edu/blog/cultivating-health/health-benefits-of-pets-how-your-furry-friend-improves-your-mental-and-physical-health/2024/04

Pet & Autism

https://habri.org/blog/the-human-animal-bond-for-autism-spectrum-disorder/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/nurturing-self-esteem-in-autistic-children/202211/is-owning-pet-beneficial-autistic-children

Gratitude

https://adaa.org/learn-from-us/from-...


Hosted by Jessica Samuels and presented by the Canadian Mental Health Association's Kelowna branch, A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health digs into the real-world factors that impact our psychological well-being. This isn't just a discussion of symptoms, but a thoughtful exploration of the societal, cultural, and personal stressors that weigh on us. Each episode moves beyond simply identifying problems to focus on practical approaches and tangible practices that can make a difference. You'll hear conversations that acknowledge how interconnected our mental health is with our physical fitness, our community, and the world around us. Supported by Beem Credit Union, the podcast provides a grounded space where complex topics feel accessible. Tuning in offers more than just insight; it’s about gathering useful information and realistic tools that you can apply to your own life. The goal is to leave each conversation with a clearer sense of direction and, as the title suggests, a genuine path toward resilience. This is a resource for anyone looking to understand the nuances of mental health and find actionable strategies for themselves and their communities.
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