Episode 9: Exploring Counselling

Episode 9: Exploring Counselling

Author: CMHA Kelowna and Jessica Samuels March 12, 2025 Duration: 44:54

Welcome to Episode 9: Exploring Counselling of A Way Forward Podcast | Presented by Beem Credit Union. In this episode of A Way Forward, Jessica Samuels and CMHA Kelowna CEO Mike Gawliuk dive into the topic of counselling. They discuss when it might be time to seek counselling, what to look for in a counselor, and share helpful resources for those considering counselling. With personal insights and professional expertise, they explore the value of therapy as a tool for well-being.

Key Discussion Points:

  • Personal Journeys with Counselling
    • Both Jessica and Mike share their personal experiences with seeking therapy.
    • The importance of recognizing when to seek help.
  • Recognizing When to Seek Counselling
    • Common reasons for accessing therapy (e.g., life transitions, grief, stress, or simply feeling “off”).
    • The misconception that counselling is only for crisis situations.
    • The benefits of early intervention and preventative mental health care.
  • Types of Mental Health Professionals & Their Roles
    • Psychiatrists: Medical doctors specializing in mental health; can prescribe medication.
    • Psychologists: PhD-trained professionals focusing on therapy and mental health assessments.
    • Counsellors: Professionals with various designations, all trained to provide mental health support.
  • How to Choose a Counsellor
    • The importance of finding the right fit.
    • Questions to ask a potential therapist (e.g., experience, specialties, approach to therapy).
    • Understanding different types of counselling credentials in British Columbia.
  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) & Other Therapeutic Approaches
    • Overview of CBT: A structured, short-term therapy focused on thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
    • The benefits and limitations of CBT.
    • Other therapy types, such as EMDR and somatic experiencing, for trauma-focused work.
    • The importance of selecting the right therapy approach based on individual needs.
  • Preparing for Your First Counselling Session
    • Understanding what to expect in the first session.
    • Tips on how to articulate your concerns and goals.
    • Emphasizing that clients have control over their therapy journey.

Key Takeaways:

  • Counselling can be beneficial for a wide range of mental health concerns—not just crises.
  • There are different types of mental health professionals, and finding the right one is crucial.
  • CBT is a widely used therapy but may not be the best fit for everyone.
  • Individuals have control over their mental health journey and can explore different approaches.

**Resources Mentioned:
When to get help

https://www.talkspace.com/blog/do-i-need-therapy/

https://ancorawellness.com/you-dont-need-crisis-to-see-counselor/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/202009/7-signs-you-should-talk-therapist

 What is CBT
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/talking-therapies-medicine-treatments/talking-therapies-and-counselling/cognitive-behavioural-therapy-cbt/overview/#:~:text=CBT%20aims%20to%20help%20you,on%20issues%20from%20your%20past.

https://www.camh.ca/en/health-info/mental-illness-and-addiction-index/cognitive-behavioural-therapy#:~:text=CBT%20is%20a%20structured%2C%20time,reactions%20that%20cause%20them%20difficulty.

 Advantages / Disadvantages of CBT

https://www.thecbtclinic.com/pros-cons-of-cbt-therapy/

https://mindvoyage.in/why-cbt-doesnt-work-with-trauma/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/what-therapy-is-and-isnt/202203/cbt-may-be-mistaken-about-mental-illness

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3673298/

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3584580/

How to prepare for therapy

https://www.sunlife.ca/en/tools-and-resources/health-and-wellness/mental-wellness/what-you-need-to-know-before-you-see-a-therapist/

https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/blog/how-to-prepare-for-your-first-therapy-session

 

Is my therapist right for me?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/supersurvivors/201710/five-questions-decide-if-therapist-is-right-you

https://www.verywellmind.com/7-signs-a-therapist-is-not-the-right-fit-6374190

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Hosted by Jessica Samuels and presented by the Canadian Mental Health Association's Kelowna branch, A Way Forward: Conversations on Mental Health digs into the real-world factors that impact our psychological well-being. This isn't just a discussion of symptoms, but a thoughtful exploration of the societal, cultural, and personal stressors that weigh on us. Each episode moves beyond simply identifying problems to focus on practical approaches and tangible practices that can make a difference. You'll hear conversations that acknowledge how interconnected our mental health is with our physical fitness, our community, and the world around us. Supported by Beem Credit Union, the podcast provides a grounded space where complex topics feel accessible. Tuning in offers more than just insight; it’s about gathering useful information and realistic tools that you can apply to your own life. The goal is to leave each conversation with a clearer sense of direction and, as the title suggests, a genuine path toward resilience. This is a resource for anyone looking to understand the nuances of mental health and find actionable strategies for themselves and their communities.
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