Episode 26 - African Melanin Queens: Why Its Okay To Be Alone, And Not Being Wanted?

Episode 26 - African Melanin Queens: Why Its Okay To Be Alone, And Not Being Wanted?

Author: Goddess Asha Mariama March 31, 2025 Duration: 50:03
In this episode, I’m gonna be disgusting why it’s OK for black women to not be accepted by black men who have made it clear that they don’t want you. Just because we want certain things, doesn’t mean that it’s going to be reciprocated. And sometimes we have black women have to accept the fact that black men in their preferences, and move on to the type of men that will find you as their preference. It is sad that a lot of black women are now single mothers because they thought that the black men that they wanted in these relationships wanted them, when in all actuality, they were just seat fillers until these men got with the women they actually want to. But this isn’t just black women, there are a lot of women and men that basically go through the same thing when it comes to people that only want them because of what they have, what they do for that person, how they treat that person, and how you build these people up. so I wanted to give black women some inspiration just to say that it’s OK that you’re not chosen by black men. You can actually focus on yourselves, building your own businesses and brands, taking care of your children on your own, and being the Queens of your own castles

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Hosted by Goddess Asha Mariama, African Melanin Queens is a space dedicated to the affirmation and holistic elevation of Black women. This podcast directly confronts the damaging narratives that suggest independent women, single mothers, or those deemed average or unattractive by societal standards are not worthy of high-value partnerships or self-love. Each episode serves as a counter-narrative, weaving together discussions on culture, mental fortitude, and physical well-being to reinforce a core truth: you are inherently enough. The conversation extends beyond mere encouragement, delving into practical education and self-improvement strategies that honor the full spectrum of the Black female experience. Listeners will find a blend of personal reflection, cultural analysis, and actionable advice on health and fitness, all framed within a context of societal awareness. It’s a gathering for those seeking to reclaim their narrative and find strength in community. Tune in for honest dialogue that celebrates beauty in all its forms-flaws, imperfections, and past mistakes included-while building a foundation for unshakable confidence and continued growth. This is where the journey back to self, in all its powerful and multifaceted glory, truly begins.
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