Alone moments to think is a skill that one must cultivate. It is very difficult to shut the door on all the noise that is around us. From social media, not forgetting all the pressure from the perception that you have been
left behind. Especially as everyone seems to be living their best life ever. The reality is we very often do not see the real story and how long it took to create the picture before us.
Many years ago,I spend quite a bit of time empowering the rural youth on entrepreneurship. One of the exercises,
I used to give them was to just find a quiet space with a very large stone, and just sit by themselves and think about their lives. What they would want to do. Where they would want to travel. Job opportunities and careers they would love to explore.
In today’s world quiet moments have become difficult.
We can barely stay away from our phones. It is reported that the average person touches their phone about 400
times a day! My cocoon moments help me come to the realization that I am running someone else’s race. The funny thing is I don’t even know whose race it is. No wonder I felt misaligned, anxious, and not able to tell, how it all adds up to my final goal and destination. Think about it! when was the last time you took your shoes off and walked on grass or lay down on the grass looking up at the clouds. So, while I am still alive, I was going to be very present and enjoy every quiet cocoon moment.
So, what is a cocoon moment. The term refers to the
moment when a caterpillar becomes a cocoon. No eating, or crawling. Just absolute stillness, as the caterpillar transforms into a butterfly. It is complete stillness, or should I say rest as its physical body transform into a beautiful butterfly. My Cocoon moment include days away from social media especially WhatsApp, so I can declutter my mind. It is in those moments that I get to step away and ask myself, why am I doing what I am doing. Does it truly align with what I want in my
future.
One of my absolute favorite Bible verses is 1 Thessalonians 4:11 “That you aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your own hands, as we
have commanded you”. Verse 12 goes on to say, “that you may walk properly towards those who are outside, and that you may lack nothing”. As a woman of Christian faith my aspiration is to lead a quiet life, which to me means lots and lots of quietness in cocoon moments. The second is to mind my own business. Which means I am to focus onbuilding my business empire. My mind and
focus should be using my talents to generate an income for me.
Cocoon moments are also moments of creativity and business strategy. It is in my cocoon moments I have found the guts and the strength to make my most difficult, risky and scary life’s decision. Innovations is another benefit of cocoon moments. God has placed such
potential within us. There are aspirations within us that were killed along our adulting process. I am thinking about my primary school debates. Who would ever know they would be a handy tool for podcasting. But it was a seed God had planted there just waiting to be cultivated at the right time.
In my cocoon moments, I also get to hear God remind me that I have a role to play in encouraging others to dare dream and trust God for their cocoon moments. I may not sing like my favorite gospel singer, but God reminds me that the same way I have found encouragement in the
words, songs, and life of others. I like wise must also write, speak, and share words of encouragement to others. The goal is not the clicks or the eye balls,
but if I can transform one life, I have done very well. If I can get only one person to listen and dare to believe, then I have done very well.
