778. Shan Boodram on Seduction, Self-Confidence + Keeping Sparks Alive in Love

778. Shan Boodram on Seduction, Self-Confidence + Keeping Sparks Alive in Love

Author: Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik July 1, 2025 Duration: 1:34:15
In this episode, Krista sits down with Shan Boodram, certified sex educator, sexologist, and host of the podcast Lovers by Shan, to explore seduction, intimacy, and self-confidence for modern women. Whether you’re single or coupled, Shan shares the secrets to embodying your most alluring, authentic self. Curious about how to reignite chemistry in long-term relationships, or how to approach flirting without the cringe? Shan spills tips from her MasterClass, The Art of Sex Appeal, on prioritizing pleasure, re-discovering desire after motherhood, and turning everyday moments into opportunities to connect. You’ll learn exactly how to put this wisdom into practice, as Krista + Shan explore everything from confidence rituals to flirting at the gym, and why seduction is so much deeper than looks. This is your permission slip to embrace your feminine energy, love yourself deeper, and flirt with life! We also talk about: -How to balance confidence + vulnerability when flirting -Reclaiming sexiness during + after motherhood -Practical seduction tools inspired by Shan’s MasterClass -Why “dating your partner” is relationship self-care -Navigating imposter syndrome when building authentic connections -How to use jewelry, rituals, and movement for sensual empowerment -The surprising link between self-help books + real life intimacy -Breaking through old stories about beauty as you age -Playful ways to approach dating apps (and actually enjoy them!) Resources -Shan’s MasterClass: The Art of Sex Appeal -Website: http://loversbyshan.com -Instagram: @shanboodram -Get our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: http://bit.ly/Almost30Book.  Sponsors: Ritual | Get 25% off your first month for a limited time at ritual.com/ALMOST30. Ka’Chava | Go to https://kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. IQ Bar | Get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. Just text ALMOST to 64000 to get your discount. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com.  Learn More: -https://almost30.com/about -almost30.com/morningmicrodose -https://almost30.com/book Join our community: -facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups -instagram.com/almost30podcast -tiktok.com/@almost30podcast -youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Find more to love at almost30.com! Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hosted by best friends Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, Almost 30 feels like a series of candid, late-night talks with people who genuinely get it. This podcast centers on the messy, transformative journey of navigating your late twenties and beyond, blending heart-centered conversations between the hosts with raw and impactful interviews. Their discussions naturally span modern spirituality, practical health and wellness, fitness, self-improvement, and the complexities of dating and relationships. What you’ll hear isn’t prescriptive advice but rather shared exploration-hilarious, vulnerable, and often surprising. The aim is to create a supportive audio space that challenges listeners to expand their view of what’s possible for their lives. Tuning into this podcast means joining a conversation that fuels a more conscious evolution, offering both laughter and tangible insights for personal growth. Krista and Lindsey build each episode with the intention to empower, making the often-isolating topics of alternative health and personal development feel accessible and deeply relatable.
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863. Rewire Beauty Conditioning + Actually Enjoy The Body You Have [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:01
In this episode, K+L unpack the body image conditioning many women carry from their twenties into adulthood. From dieting, comparison, and dating insecurities to confidence, pregnancy, and healing, this conversation refr…
862. I’m Pregnant with Baby #2! An Unfiltered Update + Q&A [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 40:07
Maybe you guessed it?! Lindsey is pregnant with baby #2! In this episode, she shares her exciting news and gets real about the emotional, physical, and spiritual shifts of pregnancy the second time around—from body image…
860. Identity Shifts, Breakups + Becoming Your Next Self [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:13:06
What if you could start over—right now? In this K+L solo, Lindsey + Krista explore the truth about identity shifts, the discomfort of being in-between versions of yourself, and why the most painful seasons are often the…
859. Why You Still Feel Stuck in Love (Even After Doing the Work) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:56:27
If you’ve done the therapy, read the books, regulated your nervous system…and still feel stuck in the same relationship patterns—this is for you. Thais Gibson, counselor, speaker, and the co-founder of The Persona Develo…
858. Social Media as Shadow Work—What Your Triggers are Revealing [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:01:30
What if social media isn’t ruining your confidence… but revealing the exact places you’re meant to heal? In this deeply honest solo, Krista breaks down how your Instagram feed is actually a mirror—reflecting your fears,…
857. From Burnout to Desire: Reclaiming Your Body + Sex Life [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:28:19
In this episode, Krista sits down with world-renowned relationship therapist, media personality, award winning radio host, and New York Times bestselling author Laura Berman to unpack what’s really happening in modern lo…