800. No More Situationships, Attract Your Committed Guy with Ben Hart

800. No More Situationships, Attract Your Committed Guy with Ben Hart

Author: Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik September 25, 2025 Duration: 1:28:47
In this episode, K+L sit down with Ben Hart, dating coach + content creator, whose fresh perspective on dating has taken TikTok by storm. Ben shares how to navigate today’s swipe-heavy world with confidence—and feel empowered in the early stages of any relationship. Ahead, you’ll hear why “if he wanted to, he would” isn’t the whole story, how to embrace your divine feminine energy in dating, and what’s really holding high-vibe singles back from open-hearted relationships. Plus, bust your dating anxiety + learn the spiritual nuances of flirting.  Krista + Lindsey spill real-life dating stories, and Ben challenges our beliefs on commitment, masculinity, and why communication is the ultimate spiritual practice in romance. If you’re ready for some tough love and practical tools to uplevel your dating game, this one’s for you!  We also talk about: How to navigate “situationships” + friends with benefits The #1 mistake women make in early dating  Overconsumption of social media “relationship advice” Reframing rejection as a spiritual lesson (+ how to make it fun) The truth about masculine vs. feminine energy Setting playful + powerful expectations around commitment Communication tips for the new age of conscious dating How to subtly signal interest + still protect your goddess energy Dating app burnout: swiping could sabotage your soulmate journey Raising your self-worth + rewriting your love story  Resources: Instagram: @Bennyinc Website: https://bennyhartinc.com/ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book.  Sponsors: Ka’Chava | Go to https://kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to https://hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. BEAM | Visit https://shopbeam.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 to get our exclusive discount of up to 40% off. Chime | Open your account in 2 minutes at https://chime.com/almost30. Revolve | Shop at https://REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hosted by best friends Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, Almost 30 feels like a series of candid, late-night talks with people who genuinely get it. This podcast centers on the messy, transformative journey of navigating your late twenties and beyond, blending heart-centered conversations between the hosts with raw and impactful interviews. Their discussions naturally span modern spirituality, practical health and wellness, fitness, self-improvement, and the complexities of dating and relationships. What you’ll hear isn’t prescriptive advice but rather shared exploration-hilarious, vulnerable, and often surprising. The aim is to create a supportive audio space that challenges listeners to expand their view of what’s possible for their lives. Tuning into this podcast means joining a conversation that fuels a more conscious evolution, offering both laughter and tangible insights for personal growth. Krista and Lindsey build each episode with the intention to empower, making the often-isolating topics of alternative health and personal development feel accessible and deeply relatable.
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573. Rock Bottoms, Relationships & Resets: A Spirituality AMA [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:08
Soul expanders, daydreamers, creative makers, and divine healers – welcome to 2023! In this one, K+L set some spiritual intentions and answer a few related questions from the community, including an exploration into soli…
BONUS: Ease Into the New Year and Your Goals [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:24
Do you *really* want to run a marathon? Or, take that ceramics course? Or, lose 10 pounds? Or, is it more likely that you are creating a future you that’s based on external validation from others? There are no right/wron…
BONUS: Heal the Divine Feminine and Step Into Love [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:57
K+L spoke with Lee Harris, renowned channel and author of Conversations with The Z's. With luck, and maybe some divine intervention, Lee received a second download – a message from The Z’s urging him to channel, live, he…
571. Our Microdosing Journey: Answering Your Q's [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:23
Welcome to the often-requested Almost 30 microdosing AMA! In this episode, K+L drop in for an intimate deep dive on all things microdosing to share more about what the practice is, what it does to the brain, their own re…
569. Finding Everything in Nothing: Darkness Retreat Recap [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:54
As you know by now, Krista is someone who loves to push the limits of what’s possible, to expand her own lived experience and learn new ways of seeing or thinking about things. She travels this path (mostly) unafraid and…
568. Journey Into the Darkness (Part 1) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:21:51
Drop in for this mind-expanding conversation between Krista and Scott Berman, of Sky Cave Retreats in Oregon, to learn all about the hidden power of the dark, its ancestral lineage in healing and spirituality, and the li…