800. No More Situationships, Attract Your Committed Guy with Ben Hart

800. No More Situationships, Attract Your Committed Guy with Ben Hart

Author: Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik September 25, 2025 Duration: 1:28:47
In this episode, K+L sit down with Ben Hart, dating coach + content creator, whose fresh perspective on dating has taken TikTok by storm. Ben shares how to navigate today’s swipe-heavy world with confidence—and feel empowered in the early stages of any relationship. Ahead, you’ll hear why “if he wanted to, he would” isn’t the whole story, how to embrace your divine feminine energy in dating, and what’s really holding high-vibe singles back from open-hearted relationships. Plus, bust your dating anxiety + learn the spiritual nuances of flirting.  Krista + Lindsey spill real-life dating stories, and Ben challenges our beliefs on commitment, masculinity, and why communication is the ultimate spiritual practice in romance. If you’re ready for some tough love and practical tools to uplevel your dating game, this one’s for you!  We also talk about: How to navigate “situationships” + friends with benefits The #1 mistake women make in early dating  Overconsumption of social media “relationship advice” Reframing rejection as a spiritual lesson (+ how to make it fun) The truth about masculine vs. feminine energy Setting playful + powerful expectations around commitment Communication tips for the new age of conscious dating How to subtly signal interest + still protect your goddess energy Dating app burnout: swiping could sabotage your soulmate journey Raising your self-worth + rewriting your love story  Resources: Instagram: @Bennyinc Website: https://bennyhartinc.com/ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book.  Sponsors: Ka’Chava | Go to https://kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to https://hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. BEAM | Visit https://shopbeam.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 to get our exclusive discount of up to 40% off. Chime | Open your account in 2 minutes at https://chime.com/almost30. Revolve | Shop at https://REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hosted by best friends Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, Almost 30 feels like a series of candid, late-night talks with people who genuinely get it. This podcast centers on the messy, transformative journey of navigating your late twenties and beyond, blending heart-centered conversations between the hosts with raw and impactful interviews. Their discussions naturally span modern spirituality, practical health and wellness, fitness, self-improvement, and the complexities of dating and relationships. What you’ll hear isn’t prescriptive advice but rather shared exploration-hilarious, vulnerable, and often surprising. The aim is to create a supportive audio space that challenges listeners to expand their view of what’s possible for their lives. Tuning into this podcast means joining a conversation that fuels a more conscious evolution, offering both laughter and tangible insights for personal growth. Krista and Lindsey build each episode with the intention to empower, making the often-isolating topics of alternative health and personal development feel accessible and deeply relatable.
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Ep. 407 - How to Heal the Mother Wound with Bethany Webster [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:38:36
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Ep. 406 - Embracing the In-Between [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:05
Lindsey was single for seven years, and it wasn’t until about five years in that she realized the purpose of that season in her life, that she stopped trying to find validation, reason, and purpose solely in a relationsh…
Ep. 404 - Receiving: How Productivity Keeps Us From the Life We Want [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:23
Almost 30 has gone through a lot of growth lately! We launched our membership, did a complete rebrand, and built out entirely new systems. And as that all settled, Krista’s first thought was: What’s next? But it is so, S…
Ep. 402 - The Healing Power of Flower Remedies with Alexis Smart [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:20:44
After homeopathic methods cured Alexis Smart of a serious illness in her 20s, she found her calling and became a Bach flower remedy practitioner. Over 15 years, she developed her own flower remedy formulas and treated pe…
Ep. 401 - Psychic Protection + Mystic Healing with Kiki Robinson [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:35:06
Kiki Robinson is a witch, artist, and tarot reader who helps people transform through creative modalities. She’s been working with K+L for the past 9 months on psychic protection, deep healing, nurturing the spirit of Al…
Ep. 400 - Rewiring Your Heart After Heartbreak with Amy Chan [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:15:27
Amy Chan is the founder and Chief Heart Hacker of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, which balances science and spirituality to help people heal the heart after a breakup. After her own traumatizing breakup, she found that no one w…
Ep. 399 - The Joy of Healing with Devi Brown [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:26:36
THE INTERVIEW So many women are so afraid to pivot and follow their calling when they’ve found something that’s comfortable. At the height of her career, Devi Brown was interviewing greats in the music industry such as Q…
Ep. 398 - Why Being Disciplined Has Given Me More Freedom [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:17
THE INTERVIEW Late in her life, Lindsey had the realization that she deeply deserved discipline. Creative types like to tell themselves that any sort of structure or discipline is only going to hinder and restrict their…