800. No More Situationships, Attract Your Committed Guy with Ben Hart

800. No More Situationships, Attract Your Committed Guy with Ben Hart

Author: Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik September 25, 2025 Duration: 1:28:47
In this episode, K+L sit down with Ben Hart, dating coach + content creator, whose fresh perspective on dating has taken TikTok by storm. Ben shares how to navigate today’s swipe-heavy world with confidence—and feel empowered in the early stages of any relationship. Ahead, you’ll hear why “if he wanted to, he would” isn’t the whole story, how to embrace your divine feminine energy in dating, and what’s really holding high-vibe singles back from open-hearted relationships. Plus, bust your dating anxiety + learn the spiritual nuances of flirting.  Krista + Lindsey spill real-life dating stories, and Ben challenges our beliefs on commitment, masculinity, and why communication is the ultimate spiritual practice in romance. If you’re ready for some tough love and practical tools to uplevel your dating game, this one’s for you!  We also talk about: How to navigate “situationships” + friends with benefits The #1 mistake women make in early dating  Overconsumption of social media “relationship advice” Reframing rejection as a spiritual lesson (+ how to make it fun) The truth about masculine vs. feminine energy Setting playful + powerful expectations around commitment Communication tips for the new age of conscious dating How to subtly signal interest + still protect your goddess energy Dating app burnout: swiping could sabotage your soulmate journey Raising your self-worth + rewriting your love story  Resources: Instagram: @Bennyinc Website: https://bennyhartinc.com/ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book.  Sponsors: Ka’Chava | Go to https://kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to https://hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. BEAM | Visit https://shopbeam.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 to get our exclusive discount of up to 40% off. Chime | Open your account in 2 minutes at https://chime.com/almost30. Revolve | Shop at https://REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hosted by best friends Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, Almost 30 feels like a series of candid, late-night talks with people who genuinely get it. This podcast centers on the messy, transformative journey of navigating your late twenties and beyond, blending heart-centered conversations between the hosts with raw and impactful interviews. Their discussions naturally span modern spirituality, practical health and wellness, fitness, self-improvement, and the complexities of dating and relationships. What you’ll hear isn’t prescriptive advice but rather shared exploration-hilarious, vulnerable, and often surprising. The aim is to create a supportive audio space that challenges listeners to expand their view of what’s possible for their lives. Tuning into this podcast means joining a conversation that fuels a more conscious evolution, offering both laughter and tangible insights for personal growth. Krista and Lindsey build each episode with the intention to empower, making the often-isolating topics of alternative health and personal development feel accessible and deeply relatable.
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Ep. 16 - How to Deal with Rejection *Minisode* [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 20:59
The girls have a very candid conversation about rejection. Krista shares what it was like auditioning for SoulCycle, what she learned, how she was redirected, and how it helped to pave the path to her successful blog. Li…
Ep. 15 - Tinder, Ghosting, Trump, & Twitter Trolls [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:23:31
The topic table is a BUFFET this week. Krista and Lindsey share their "Hundred, NOT Hundred's". Lindsey got a haircut, so tell ya friends. But on a note that is so typical/weird us: Who would have thought that finding ou…
Ep. 13 - Defriending IRL? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:22
It's just you and the girls this week, so grab some Cheez-Itz and get comfy. It's time for a little catch up by way of "Hundred, NOT Hundred". Krista is back from Bali, a place she never thought she would visit in her li…
Ep. 12 - Your New Morning Rituals *Minisode* [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:33
#Almost30 is having a mindful morning. That first hour will set the tone for the rest of your day, so quit half-assing and hating it. Krista and Lindsey outline their best mornings and explain why the rituals they have i…
Ep. 11 - Holistic Health Coach, Daniela Kende of Color Me Complete [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:36:22
"Daniela Kende is a board certified Holisitic Health Coach who supports busy professionals who want to lose weight, reveal more radiant skin, and find abundant energy to create the life they've always imagined." Are you…
Ep. 10 - Let's Get Personal [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:39
In this episode of Almost 30, Lindsey and Krista interview each other. You'd think they know everything about one another, but the coolest part of friendship is finding out new sh*t about the other person every time you…
Ep. 9 - Card Chip Readers Suck, Self Awareness Rules [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:25
The girls could be driving a Nissan Sentra (uh, one of them does) or a G-wagon, but if there is a sun roof, they feel like BALLERS no matter what. Ya feel that? It's the little things...and a few profound things in this…