855. Relationship Advice with K+L: Feel Secure, Stop Overthinking + Choose Better

855. Relationship Advice with K+L: Feel Secure, Stop Overthinking + Choose Better

Author: Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik March 24, 2026 Duration: 54:46
In this solo episode, Krista + Lindsey get real about what it actually looks like to navigate relationships in your 30s, without losing yourself in the process.  From early dating anxiety to feeling “too attached,” they unpack the difference between intuition + fear, and why being honest might be your biggest dating advantage. They also dive into what it really means to communicate in modern relationships—and why clarity is actually magnetic. Plus, they get into the messy middle of healing—like feeling anger toward your parents, outgrowing friendships, and rebuilding intimacy after big life changes. Get ready to feel more secure, expressed, and aligned in every area of your life. We also talk about: Why getting “attached” in dating isn’t actually a bad thing The power of saying how you feel early in relationships How to stop future-tripping + come back to the present moment Navigating anger + resentment during therapy + healing Reparenting yourself + building emotional independence The truth about going “no contact” with family Why friendships aren’t always convenient—and what that means How to evolve relationships without guilt or forcing alignment Rebuilding intimacy + connection after becoming a parent Why scheduling time for your relationship is essential, not optional Resources: Instagram: @lindseysimcik Instagram: @itskrista Website: https://itskrista.com/ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book.  Sponsors: Chime | It just takes a few minutes to sign up. Head to https://www.Chime.com/ALMOST30. Paleovalley | Head to https://www.paleovalley.com/almost30 for 15% off your order! Our Place | Visit https://www.fromourplace.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 10% off sitewide.  Fatty15 | Get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to https://www.fatty15.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 at checkout.  Our Place | Visit https://www.fromourplace.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 10% off sitewide.  Ka’Chava | Go to https://www.kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. Ritual | Don’t settle for less than evidence-based support. My listeners get 25% off your first month at https://www.Ritual.com/ALMOST30.  Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to https://hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. Revolve | Shop at https://www.REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner BetterHelp | This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://www.betterhelp.com/almost30 and get on your way to being your best self with 10% off your first month. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hosted by best friends Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, Almost 30 feels like a series of candid, late-night talks with people who genuinely get it. This podcast centers on the messy, transformative journey of navigating your late twenties and beyond, blending heart-centered conversations between the hosts with raw and impactful interviews. Their discussions naturally span modern spirituality, practical health and wellness, fitness, self-improvement, and the complexities of dating and relationships. What you’ll hear isn’t prescriptive advice but rather shared exploration-hilarious, vulnerable, and often surprising. The aim is to create a supportive audio space that challenges listeners to expand their view of what’s possible for their lives. Tuning into this podcast means joining a conversation that fuels a more conscious evolution, offering both laughter and tangible insights for personal growth. Krista and Lindsey build each episode with the intention to empower, making the often-isolating topics of alternative health and personal development feel accessible and deeply relatable.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 500

Almost 30
Podcast Episodes
508. Collapsing Timelines with a Digital Life Edit [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:06
It’s impossible to avoid – all of us are living digital lives in some form or another. Whether it’s on social platforms, group chats, email, and even in the images themselves, we are leaving a trace of our life all over…
506. Your Inner Teenager Healing Guide [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:26:58
You may remember Bethany Webster from our most recent Camp Almost 30 where she, we have to say, brought the freaking house down. She also joined us in March of 2021, where she introduced the community to the life-changin…
505. An Anxiety Audit [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:22
The collective mental health conversation is making big strides, y’all, but for the longest time it just wasn’t talked about. For Linds, anxiety was something that was always a part of her life but never really understoo…
504. The Key To Success + Connection That No One Talks About [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:33:19
Our subconscious cues communicate so much of what’s brewing under the surface. Behavior expert, Vanessa Van Edwards, has mastered the impact of what cues reveal and how they can be weaponized to your advantage. From elev…
503. Your Guide to Ascension with Sandra Walter [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:23:11
Ascension guide, Sandra Walter, is pretty out there – literally. She lived in Mount Shasta for seven years after heading to the call. That call led her to transformative encounters of the galactic kind. As a conduit for…
502. How to Beat Bloat, Stress + Anxiety [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:22:14
Siffat Haider is on a mission to help women beat bloat naturally. She created Arrae after spending years battling health issues with toxic over-the-counter meds that didn’t work. In this episode, Sifat shares the behind-…
501. The Most Important Part of Your Spiritual Journey [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:28
If you’ve ever felt that swell of superiority for your spiritual pursuits over your peers, then this episode is for you. The spiritual ego is real, y’all, and it’s a trap pretty much all of us will fall into as we power…
500. What We Learned from Recording 500 Episodes [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:21:43
Almost 30 is officially 500 episodes old! Hundreds of interviews and many more lessons later, K + L reflect on how they built Almost 30 from the ground up (literally! The first 6 months were recorded from their closet fl…
499. Self-Mastery, Loss and Radical Love with Rosie Acosta [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:38:36
How do you relate to love? This illuminating conversation between Rosie Acosta and Krista unwraps the notion of love at its deepest, most raw level. From the love we cultivate with our romantic partners (one of the highe…