bh215: catching up with Mr and Ms J

bh215: catching up with Mr and Ms J

Author: bed hoppers November 9, 2025 Duration: 1:25:35
This episode features delightful guests Mr and Ms J - who talk about their journey into the swinging lifestyle. We cover a whole host of things from dealing with anxiety, diving straight into clubs, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and what challenges children might bring into their adventures. Mr and Mrs H also have a bit of a chat about getting videos and pictures - it's only the start of that conversation but we'd love to know your thoughts. Bob us an email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links and info In the episode Mr H talks about a book that someone recommended. This is the book: 'When I say "NO", I feel Guilty' by Manuel J. Smith. It's on Spotify as a free audiobook, if you have a premium account. As is The Ethical Slut - which we'd highly recommend.  

Tune in to bed hoppers-swinging in the UK, a candid audio space hosted by a couple navigating this unique aspect of adult life. Mr and Mrs H are in their forties and based in the UK, offering a grounded, relatable perspective as they share their ongoing experiences within the swinging community. While they consider themselves relatively new to this journey, they’ve already gathered a collection of personal stories and insights that form the heart of this podcast. Each episode feels like a conversation with friends, blending honest reflections on their discoveries with practical advice they’ve picked up along the way. You’ll hear them discuss the nuances of the lifestyle with a mix of humor and sincerity, balancing the sexy and the straightforward. The tone is warm, unpretentious, and often funny, focusing on the real human connection and laughter that accompanies their adventures. This isn't about sensationalism; it's an authentic chronicle of a couple's exploration, meant to inform, entertain, and perhaps demystify a topic often shrouded in secrecy. For anyone curious about alternative relationships or simply enjoys hearing genuine personal narratives, this podcast provides a refreshingly open and down-to-earth listen.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

bed hoppers - swinging in the UK
Podcast Episodes
bh173: one on one with Secret Vixen [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:04:07
In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag…
bh172: from red-lines to escalations [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:00
In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don'…
bh171: glory holes and trouser holes - NYE at Xstasia [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:16
Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang! This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were las…
bh170: a solo play date [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:14:48
In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H re…
bh169: the great big UK hotel takeover [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:18
This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show (https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swi…
bh168: a big discussion on dynamics [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:04:01
Thanks for downloading our podcast. We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This…
bh167: the Miami PCAP recap [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:04:09
Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thou…
bh166: SwingHub and Open House with Olivia and Gage [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:26
In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We ha…
bh165: the pre event conversation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:54
In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a liste…
bh164: Swindon Swingers Club [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:45
In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember…