8: Inside the Mind of An Unfaithful Man (Part 1)

8: Inside the Mind of An Unfaithful Man (Part 1)

Author: Monica Humpal, MCC April 15, 2026 Duration: 1:03:06

This is a conversation that has been asked for over and over again from my listeners, clients, and Facebook group members. Finding an unfaithful person willing to be vulnerable and honest with a conversation such as this was challenging, but the wait was worth it to have Eric join us and share his story and insights. This was a two hour interview that has beens split into two parts so be sure to listen to part 2 (released one week after this episode is published). Be sure to check out Eric's info below and reach out if you or someone you know is an unfaithful man seeking support.

Guest Info

Eric Lintz: Coach, Mentor

Enlifted Level 2 Coach, Assistant Coach with Man2Man, Founder of OnceACheater

Eric's life unraveled after betraying his wife and blowing up his marriage and family. As the fallout intensified, shame and despair took hold, and he began to believe suicide was the only way to end the pain. A friend stepped in and urged him to attend an intensive workshop. It was there Eric took ownership of his healing and began the slow, painful process of rebuilding his life, his marriage, and his family. Over time, he developed the durability needed to face himself honestly and change.

Today, Eric helps men rebuild after betrayal, secrecy, and relational damage. He guides them through ownership, honesty, and consistent change, helping them build the emotional durability needed for lasting transformation. His work is anchored in a simple truth: if you change, everything will change for you.

Connect with Eric at: https://onceacheater.com


Walking through the aftermath of infidelity while choosing to remain in the relationship is a path few understand, and Betrayed & Stayed exists specifically for that journey. Host Rev. Monica Humpal brings a unique perspective as someone who has lived through the betrayal herself and now works as a Master Certified Coach. Each episode feels like a candid conversation in a trusted space, tackling the complex layers of grief, the slow rebuilding of trust, and the practical realities of setting boundaries. This isn't about simplistic advice or pretending the process is easy. Instead, you'll hear genuine discussions about what forgiveness can and cannot mean, the emotional labor of true reconciliation, and how to navigate the days when hope feels thin. Designed for both men and women, the podcast provides a blend of personal reflection and actionable wisdom, acknowledging the pain while focusing on the deliberate work of rebuilding something new from the fragments. If you're looking for real talk without the sugar-coating, this is a place to find solidarity and grounded guidance.
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If you're here, chances are your life didn't turn out the way you thought it would. You discovered the betrayal. Your world cracked open. And then you made a choice that not everyone understands—you stayed. Or maybe you'…