Official Trailer

Official Trailer

Author: Monica Humpal, MCC December 31, 2025 Duration: 7:45

If you're here, chances are your life didn't turn out the way you thought it would.

You discovered the betrayal.
Your world cracked open.
And then you made a choice that not everyone understands—you stayed.

Or maybe you're still deciding.

Betrayed & Stayed is a podcast for men and women who have experienced infidelity and are choosing the complicated, courageous path of reconciliation. This is a space for honest conversations about grief, anger, forgiveness, boundaries, trust, faith, and the slow work of healing—without judgment and without pretending this is easy.

I'm Rev. Monica Humpal. I'm an ordained pastor, a Master Certified Coach, and a betrayed spouse myself. I know what it's like to have your story rewritten without your consent—and to keep walking anyway.

This podcast isn't about quick fixes or perfect marriages.
It's about telling the truth.
About learning how to stay without losing yourself.
About healing—whether your relationship ultimately survives or not.

If you've felt unseen, misunderstood, or alone in your decision to stay…
you belong here.

Welcome to Betrayed & Stayed.

 

Monica Humpal is a Master Certified Coach who specializes in walking alongside those healing from infidelity while walking the challenging path of reconciliation. If you are seeking a coach and would like to speak with Monica click [HERE] to sign up for a free consulation to see if coaching is the right fit for you.


Walking through the aftermath of infidelity while choosing to remain in the relationship is a path few understand, and Betrayed & Stayed exists specifically for that journey. Host Rev. Monica Humpal brings a unique perspective as someone who has lived through the betrayal herself and now works as a Master Certified Coach. Each episode feels like a candid conversation in a trusted space, tackling the complex layers of grief, the slow rebuilding of trust, and the practical realities of setting boundaries. This isn't about simplistic advice or pretending the process is easy. Instead, you'll hear genuine discussions about what forgiveness can and cannot mean, the emotional labor of true reconciliation, and how to navigate the days when hope feels thin. Designed for both men and women, the podcast provides a blend of personal reflection and actionable wisdom, acknowledging the pain while focusing on the deliberate work of rebuilding something new from the fragments. If you're looking for real talk without the sugar-coating, this is a place to find solidarity and grounded guidance.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 12

Betrayed & Stayed
Podcast Episodes
9:  Inside the Mind of An Unfaithful Man (Part 2) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:54
This is a PART 2 of a conversation that has been asked for over and over again from my listeners, clients, and Facebook group members. Finding an unfaithful person willing to be vulnerable and honest with a conversation…
8: Inside the Mind of An Unfaithful Man (Part 1) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:06
This is a conversation that has been asked for over and over again from my listeners, clients, and Facebook group members. Finding an unfaithful person willing to be vulnerable and honest with a conversation such as this…
7: Stop Doing the "Pick Me" Dance During Affair Recovery [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:16
After infidelity, it's easy to slip into what I call the "pick me" dance… trying harder, giving more, being easier to love, all in an effort to feel chosen again. In this episode, we're not talking about why you do it. Y…
6: Do Men & Women Experience Betrayal Differently? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:44
I have been waiting so long to have this conversation with a betrayed man. As a coach that primarily works with women, I have had one long-term betrayed male client. And I noticed some differences with how he processed b…
5: How to Stop Reliving the Affair [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:25
Are you stuck replaying the affair in your mind? If you're experiencing intrusive thoughts after cheating, graphic "mind movies," obsessive replay, or nighttime anxiety, this episode is for you. After infidelity, your br…
Bonus Episode: Don't Believe Everything You Hear About Infidelity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:25
We hear so many things about infidelity on social media. The good, the bad, and the ugly. Some of it is mostly true. Some is just nonsense. And most is based on opinions that come from personal experience. Either way, wh…
4: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:41
After infidelity, many betrayed partners want to trust again — but find they simply can't. In this episode, we talk about why trust doesn't return through promises, reassurance, or willpower, and what actually helps rebu…
3: Why You Can't 'Just Move On' After Infidelity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:27
You chose to stay after infidelity. So why does it still hurt so much? In this episode, we talk about why betrayed partners can't simply "move on," even when the affair is over and they've decided to stay. This isn't wea…
Bonus Episode: You Don't Have to Earn Fidelity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 14:54
In this bonus episode, I respond to a popular influencer whose content focuses on teaching people how to "keep their partner happy." While this message can sound harmless or even helpful, it often carries a deeper and mo…
2: I Stayed After Infidelity ... Now What? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:29
What happens after you decide to stay — even temporarily — following infidelity? For many betrayed partners, staying doesn't bring relief. It brings confusion, shame, pressure, and a constant sense of urgency to "figure…