29. Sex FAQs - How do I Corona-Proof My Sex And Love Life?

29. Sex FAQs - How do I Corona-Proof My Sex And Love Life?

Author: Sara Tang, Sexologist & Coach April 9, 2020 Duration: 42:18

How has the global pandemic affected your sex and love life? And how can you 'corona-proof' your relationship against the stress, uncertainty and conflict?

 

A crisis like the one we find ourselves in accelerates the dynamics of any relationship, and you may feel more intense emotions for each other or reach breaking point more quickly.

 

We're all concerned about staying physically healthy during these times; but it just as important to keep your relationships safe, strong and healthy too.

 

Sara chats with clinical psychologist Dr. Kimberly Carder, as we discuss practical strategies and solutions to answer the following crowdsourced questions from followers:

 

  1. How do I reduce anxiety for myself, and comfort and reassure my partner during this crisis?
  1. I'm around my partner all the time, and we don't have much desire for sex right now. How can we spice things up and re-capture that sense of excitement?
  1. We're both stuck at home at this intense time, which is driving us to nitpick and fight with each other over lots of small things that wouldn't normally bother us. What can we do?
  1. My partner and I are stuck in different cities, and I'm feeling lonely and bored now that we're separated. What can we do to feel more connected?
  1. My partner thinks I am over reacting and minimizes my fear of the coronavirus, how can I get them to take it more seriously?
  1. Is it even safe to have sex these days?

 

Kim and Sara talk about why the power of "teamwork" is more essential than ever during these times, and the need for the 4Cs – creativity, communication, connection and commitment – to strengthen any relationship, and keep things hot and sexy!

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Ever wondered what happens when you take the awkwardness out of talking about sex and replace it with genuine curiosity and a bit of humor? That’s the space Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense occupies each week. Hosted by sexologist and coach Sara Tang, these conversations feel more like insightful chats with a knowledgeable friend than a clinical lecture. The podcast moves freely across topics tied to health, culture, and our personal relationships, reflecting the many ways sexuality touches our lives. You’ll hear honest discussions that demystify desires, tackle societal taboos, and explore the practical aspects of intimacy, all with a refreshingly light touch. It’s not about prescribing one right way; it’s about creating a comfortable environment for exploration and self-discovery. Whether the subject is fitness, communication, or cultural norms, Sara’s approach normalizes asking questions we often keep to ourselves. Tuning into this podcast means joining a dialogue that prioritizes understanding over judgment, and playfulness over pressure. The result is a collection of episodes that genuinely aim to make conversations about sex-and the experiences themselves-feel more accessible and significantly less intimidating for everyone involved.
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