36. Penis Performance Pointers - Lasting Longer with Jeff Abraham

36. Penis Performance Pointers - Lasting Longer with Jeff Abraham

Author: Sara Tang, Sexologist & Coach June 11, 2021 Duration: 1:04:32

Calling all penis owners and penis lovers! Want to know how to make sex last longer, and avoid finishing too soon?

 

On this episode, Sara chats with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, who shares some great pointers on one of the most common penis challenges - early or premature ejaculation (PE).

 

We start off by discussing the various ways to manage the anxiety, shame and fear around PE and its impact on penis performance.

 

Some of the strategies include talking openly with our partners, and focusing in on their pleasure instead of just being fixated on the duration of sex as a metric of performance.

 

After all, longer sex doesn't always equate to better sex!

 

Jeff also offers some practical tips on how to introduce toys and other sex-enhancing products in a confident, constructive manner.

 

Particularly, Promescent's trademark delay spray for penis owners and arousal gel for vulva owners can be used together can help to close the heterosexual orgasm gap.

 

This episode will help all penis owners (and their partners) increase intimacy, stay present in the moment and connect on a deeper level.

 

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Ever wondered what happens when you take the awkwardness out of talking about sex and replace it with genuine curiosity and a bit of humor? That’s the space Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense occupies each week. Hosted by sexologist and coach Sara Tang, these conversations feel more like insightful chats with a knowledgeable friend than a clinical lecture. The podcast moves freely across topics tied to health, culture, and our personal relationships, reflecting the many ways sexuality touches our lives. You’ll hear honest discussions that demystify desires, tackle societal taboos, and explore the practical aspects of intimacy, all with a refreshingly light touch. It’s not about prescribing one right way; it’s about creating a comfortable environment for exploration and self-discovery. Whether the subject is fitness, communication, or cultural norms, Sara’s approach normalizes asking questions we often keep to ourselves. Tuning into this podcast means joining a dialogue that prioritizes understanding over judgment, and playfulness over pressure. The result is a collection of episodes that genuinely aim to make conversations about sex-and the experiences themselves-feel more accessible and significantly less intimidating for everyone involved.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 58

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense
Podcast Episodes
17 Opening up to open relationships Pt. 2 (Swinging) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:55
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16 Exploring the Forbidden [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:14
Why do we always want what we can't have? And want to do the things we shouldn't do? Sara and Jye invite Jayde Lovell, the YouTube host of popular science show SciQ to shed some light from the fascinating world of neuros…
15 The Future of SexTech [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07:26
Fintech, edtech, healthtech... and now, what is sextech? Sextech refers to any technology or tech-driven venture that enhances the human sexuality experience. Its the US$30 billion industry that you've never heard of...…
14 Demystifying gay sex [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07:21
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13 Playing the dating game [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:05:42
Love it or hate it, we all have to play the dating game to stand a chance of finding love or even getting laid. Sara and Jye discuss the triumphs and travails of dating in today's world with the very entertaining Elena G…
12 Building your sex toy chest [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07:16
There's lots to feel happy - or even "hysterical" - about on this episode, because its all about sex toys! Sara and Jye record their very first mobile podcast at Hong Kong's female-friendly, intimate lifestyle store Sall…
11 Sexercise: Getting fit for the bedroom [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:00
Need yet another reason this year to hit the gym? Well, tune in and drop it like a squat! On this episode, fitpreneur Mack Pijewski of MackFitt joins Jye and Sara in the studio to deconstruct the link between sex and fit…
10 Female ejaculation: Turning on the waterworks [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:02:40
What is female ejaculation, aka squirting? And why is it considered so hot yet so controversial? Sara and Jye are joined in the studio by sex educator Christina Antonyan, founder of Confident Lovers for literally, the ju…
09 Why don't Asians talk about sex? feat. Alyson Hau (侯嘉明) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:06
Parents cringe. Teachers blush. Shame ensues. But why is talking about sex so taboo in Asian culture? Bubbly Hong Kong media personality Alyson Hau (侯嘉明) joins Sara and Jye to discuss what lies behind this cultural taboo…
08 Bridging the pleasure gap [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:28
There's yet another gender gap to think about, and this one takes place not in the boardroom, but in the bedroom. Men have twice the number of orgasms that women do, and in heterosexual couples, women are four times more…