45. Sex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S.

45. Sex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S.

Author: Sara Tang, Sexologist & Coach March 6, 2022 Duration: 52:37

Ever been in a sexual situation where your - or your partner's - penis wasn't doing exactly what you wanted it to do? 

 

Penis issues are incredibly common, yet they are often accompanied by stress, fear, anxiety, and shame. The penis-owner can feel like a failure, and they can make sex a task instead of a pleasure.

 

That's why Sara and Jeff Abraham, CEO of sexual health company Promescent (http://promescent.com) sit down and answer your most pressing penis questions on this Sex FAQs episode. Topics include:

  1. How do I overcome performance anxiety?
  2. What can I do to keep my erections strong with age?
  3. How can I last longer during sex?
  4. How can I improve my male masturbation sessions? 
  5. How do I maintain an erection with condoms? 
  6. What if I struggle to ejaculate during sex?

 

Sara and Jeff shed some light on the causes of common penis issues, and talk about what to do if, or when, things go south in different situations.

 

Penis challenges are very common, and they don't have to signal the end of your sex life. After all, there's so much more to sex than just erections and ejaculations, so shifting away from a penis performance mindset and finding creative ways to satisfy each other is key.

 

As communication is the most important tool to solve any kind of penis issue, speak up and seek help with any challenge you may be experiencing. Ultimately, penis issues are nothing to be ashamed of. 

 

Tune in to the episode to get tips on keeping your penis healthy and happy in any S.O.S situation. 

 

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  • Detailed show notes for this episode here.

Ever wondered what happens when you take the awkwardness out of talking about sex and replace it with genuine curiosity and a bit of humor? That’s the space Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense occupies each week. Hosted by sexologist and coach Sara Tang, these conversations feel more like insightful chats with a knowledgeable friend than a clinical lecture. The podcast moves freely across topics tied to health, culture, and our personal relationships, reflecting the many ways sexuality touches our lives. You’ll hear honest discussions that demystify desires, tackle societal taboos, and explore the practical aspects of intimacy, all with a refreshingly light touch. It’s not about prescribing one right way; it’s about creating a comfortable environment for exploration and self-discovery. Whether the subject is fitness, communication, or cultural norms, Sara’s approach normalizes asking questions we often keep to ourselves. Tuning into this podcast means joining a dialogue that prioritizes understanding over judgment, and playfulness over pressure. The result is a collection of episodes that genuinely aim to make conversations about sex-and the experiences themselves-feel more accessible and significantly less intimidating for everyone involved.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 58

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