Neurodivergence and gender identity – with Charlie Ocean

Neurodivergence and gender identity – with Charlie Ocean

Author: Carolyn Kiel October 30, 2023 Duration: 52:02

Charlie Ocean is an award-winning LGBTQ+ speaker, trainer, and consultant who is neuroqueer and nonbinary. They have a background in social work and over 15 years of experience with LGBTQ+ community organizing. To date, they've trained thousands of youth and adults on various LGBTQ+ topics in various settings. Charlie is also the host of Allyship is a Verb, a Sonic Bloom Awards and Ambie-nominated podcast.

During this episode, Charlie talks about:

  • What led them to start their LGBTQ+ advocacy in high school
  • How they realized that they were nonbinary and neurodivergent – and what being neuroqueer means to them
  • How their personal experiences in the workplace led them to start their consulting practice
  • Addressing allies' common fears and making space for messy (but necessary) conversations about allyship

You can find Charlie's work at the following links:

Instagram
LinkedIn
Website
Allyship is a Verb podcast

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