Episode 29: Does Sobriety Define You? Should it?

Episode 29: Does Sobriety Define You? Should it?

Author: Sean and Dayne February 27, 2025 Duration: 53:51
Send us Fan Mail In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond Sexual Brokenness, Sean and Dayne go head-to-head in a deep and honest debate: Should sobriety define who you are? Or is it just a part of your journey—not your identity? Some say sobriety is the foundation of healing, the proof of real change. Others argue that making it your identity can be a dangerous trap—what happens when you relapse? Does that mean you've lost yourself? If you’re not "sober enough," does that mean you’re not r...

Hosts Sean and Dayne guide Beyond Sexual Brokenness-Real Time Stories of Recovery with a grounded, compassionate focus. This isn't a theoretical discussion from the sidelines; it's a series of frank conversations anchored in the ongoing, lived experience of moving beyond compulsive behaviors with porn and sexual addiction. You'll hear directly from people navigating their recovery, sharing what's working, what isn't, and the personal lessons surfacing in real time. The dialogue covers practical tools and programs, but always circles back to the human element-the setbacks, the breakthroughs, and the gradual rebuilding of a healthier self. By prioritizing the practitioner's point of view over purely clinical advice, this podcast creates a rare space for authentic connection and understanding. Tune in for honest accounts that demystify the process and underscore that healing, while challenging, is a tangible path forward. Each story adds a layer of collective insight, making this series a valuable companion for anyone seeking a relatable and hopeful perspective on their own journey.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 50

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Episode 61: Reality Is Not the Enemy [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:28
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Episode 59: I Didn’t Get Rid of Shame — I’m Outgrowing It [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:09:38
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Episode 58: Let's Talk Identity - No Cop-Outs Allowed [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:18:48
Send us Fan Mail Recovery isn’t just about quitting—it’s about becoming. In this group conversation, we talk honestly about identity: who we say we want to be, where our actions don’t line up, and what’s actually working…
Episode 57: Loneliness Sucks - Before and After Recovery! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:13
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Episode 56: Addiction and Breakup - The Conversation We Avoid [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:35
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Episode 55: Choosing the Risks That Set You Free [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:52
Send us Fan Mail Recovery is not about eliminating risk. It is about choosing the right ones. In this episode, we explore redemptive risks, the intentional decisions that move us toward honesty, freedom, and growth. Some…
Episode 54: No Resolutions, Just Recovery [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:09:18
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Episode 53: Holiday Blues, Old Wounds, and Choosing Sobriety Anyway [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:01
Send us Fan Mail The holidays can be a difficult time for many people in recovery. In this solo episode, Sean speaks openly about the emotional weight, sadness, and mental health challenges that can surface during the ho…