Baggage, Blended Families & Stepmothers (with Priscilla Appeaning)

Baggage, Blended Families & Stepmothers (with Priscilla Appeaning)

Author: Black Ballad May 8, 2022 Duration: 28:06

According to statistics, "blended families" are on the rise, but the idea of a happily ever after that involves children from previous relationships, is often written off by many people dating.


We get into the practicalities of step-parenting and step-family life with Priscilla Appeaning. It's not all a bed of roses, but it doesn't have to be a basket of thorns either!


Read Priscilla's article, 'Why More Black Women Should Prepare Themselves To Become Step-Mums', on Black Ballad.


Listen back to the dating episode from the last season of The Survival Guide here.


Read Rochelle Rodney's article, 'The Realities Of Dating As A Single Mother', on Black Ballad.


Follow Black Ballad on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok. Let us know what you think about this episode on Twitter by using the hashtag #BBSurvivalGuide.


Not yet a member of Black Ballad? Sign up and use the code ‘THRIVE’ for a discount for 50% off 12 months membership.


The theme music for this podcast was produced by Dar’rell Banks.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.


Black Ballad Presents: The Survival Guide moves beyond the polished highlights to explore the full, textured reality of raising children as a Black woman in Britain. This podcast creates a vital space for honest dialogue, tackling the joys, complexities, and unspoken challenges that define the maternal experience. Each episode features candid conversations with a range of voices, from everyday parents to influential figures like Jamelia, Laura Henry-Allain, and Dr. Beverly Tatum Daniel, as well as the community collective Black Mums Upfront. Listeners will find a mix of personal storytelling, practical advice, and deep dives into topics often left out of mainstream parenting discussions-including intimacy, identity, mental load, and navigating systemic pressures. Produced by Black Ballad, the series builds a collective wisdom that feels more like a necessary chat with a trusted friend than a standard advice show. It’s a resource for solidarity, reflection, and genuine strategy, meeting listeners wherever they are in their journey. The conversations here are specifically for and by Black British mothers, offering relatable perspectives and survival tactics that resonate long after an episode ends. Tune in for a podcast that refuses to simplify motherhood, instead honoring its multifaceted nature with clarity and warmth.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 26

Black Ballad Presents: The Survival Guide
Podcast Episodes
We're back! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:00
Black Ballad Presents: The Survival Guide is back for another season, talking about all the things we don't speak about enough.We have guests including Jamelia, Black Mums Upfront and Laura Henry-Allain MBE (the creator…
Having It All (with Tobi Oredein) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 49:00
For our final episode, we have an intimate conversation between Tobi Oredein (co-founder and CEO of Black Ballad) and Jendella Benson (Black Ballad's head of editorial) about working motherhood, women's health, parenting…
Initiations & Transformations (with Kelechi Okafor) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:41
Motherhood is wild. Have we told you that it's wild? Just in case you haven't gathered that from the first nine episodes of this series: MOTHERHOOD IS WILD!!!!!In the process of caring for your new baby and adjusting to…
Fostering & Adoption (with Aunika Blake) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:36
Not only are black children over-represented in the care system, but black boys wait on average over a year longer than white children to get adopted...These grim figures are encouraging some of us to make the leap into…
Dating, Entanglements and Motherhood (with Wunmi Etti) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:22
How do you date when you have children? Practically? Whether you use The Apps or you're a fan of an old-fashioned lingering look across the bar, there are lots of questions that come into play when you decide you're a mu…
BONUS: Black Ballad Takes Over The Vintage Books Podcast [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 0:38
As well as your usual instalment of The Survival Guide, this week Black Ballad takes over the Vintage Books Podcast!Join Jendella in conversation with award-winning author Diana Evans (26a, The Wonder, Ordinary People) a…
...Showtime! (with Anu) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:58
It's that moment we've been waiting for... it's Baby's Big Showtime!! But you'll need to have been living under a rock to not know about latest figures that suggest that black mothers are five times more likely to die in…