Sober Living

Sober Living

Author: Anchored Media Network May 1, 2026 Duration: 58:22

Tatum is in the trenches of her first-year law school finals, so this week she's bringing back one of her most foundational episodes — and as she always says, when an oldie comes back around, trust that the Lord is bringing it back for a reason. Whether you've heard it before or this is your first time, this one is worth sitting with.

In this episode, Tatum opens up about the early years of making God the CEO of her business and introduces a new series focused on the application of faith-driven entrepreneurship — not just the information, but the lived practice.

Before diving into strategy, marketing, or business plans, she makes the case that we have to start with sobriety: freeing ourselves from the influences, distractions, and cultural pressures that pull our focus away from the Lord and onto the metrics of the world.

In this episode, Tatum covers:

  • Why sobriety is the non-negotiable foundation before any business building can begin
  • The story of how obedience during a season of stripping and pruning led to her most fruitful breakthroughs
  • The moment she hit her first six-figure year — and why her reaction to it changed everything
  • How entrepreneurship can become its own kind of intoxication
  • A word for anyone being called to pioneer something new, even when it feels lonely and irrational

The 5 Substances to Detox From:

  1. Success culture and performance pressure
  2. Digital noise and comparison
  3. Mixed mentorship
  4. Materialism and metrics-based validation
  5. Over-independence

Scriptures Referenced:

  • 1 Peter 5:8
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:6–8
  • Mark 14:38

Action Step: Download the free Clarity Cleanse guide (linked in show notes) — a month-long detox plan with weekly focus areas, scriptures, action steps, and prayer points to help you build the sober, focused foundation your business needs.

Join the Society — Tatum's membership community for Christian women growing in life, faith, and business. Weekly prayer calls, Bible studies, daily devotionals, and a community of women walking this out with you.



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Every week on Blessed + Bossed Up, you’ll find a conversation that sits at the intersection of practical business hustle and grounded spiritual faith. This isn’t about keeping those parts of life separate; it’s about integrating them to build a life of purpose and impact. Host Tatum Temia Ayomike brings her experience as an award-winning entrepreneur, author, and executive producer to each episode, but she comes first as a devoted Christian and a sister on the same path. The Anchored Media Network podcast provides a space where purposeful women can gather to discuss what it truly means to let God lead as the CEO of their ambitions. You’ll hear honest talk about the challenges of entrepreneurship, the necessity of an uncompromising faith, and the daily strategies-both divine and practical-needed to move forward. It’s for anyone who believes their success is a form of stewardship and wants to be equipped with clarity and courage. Tune in for a blend of mentorship, real-world insights, and spiritual encouragement designed to help you navigate the call on your life and business with confidence.
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