Why Rest Feels Unproductive (But Isn’t)

Why Rest Feels Unproductive (But Isn’t)

Author: Anchored Media Network March 5, 2026 Duration: 40:56

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue the book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, exploring chapters 2 and 3. Tatum dives into the history of speed in modern culture and how technological advancement, shifting cultural values, and the rise of the attention economy have created a lifestyle of chronic busyness.

From alarm clocks and the invention of the light bulb to smartphones and social media platforms, we unpack how the modern world has conditioned us to move faster, do more, and measure productivity by output rather than spiritual depth.

But what is the real cost of this constant hurry?

This episode challenges Christian entrepreneurs and busy believers to reconsider their definition of productivity, confront the hidden addiction to digital devices, and examine whether busyness is crowding out intimacy with God.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, constantly rushed, or spiritually disconnected despite being productive, this conversation will help you recognize the deeper root of the problem—and prepare you for the solutions coming in the next episode.

In This Episode We Discuss

  • Why hurry is considered the greatest enemy of the spiritual life
  • The historical shift from natural rhythms to artificial schedules
  • How the invention of the light bulb and industrial work culture changed sleep and productivity
  • The cultural shift from leisure as wealth to busyness as status
  • The decline of Sabbath practices in modern society
  • How the digital age and smartphones fuel distraction and addiction
  • The psychology behind the attention economy
  • The concept of “hurry sickness” and its symptoms
  • How constant busyness can damage our spiritual health
  • Why redefining productivity is essential for believers


Key Takeaways

1. Modern life is built around speed—not soul care.

Historically, people lived according to natural rhythms—waking with the sun and resting after sunset. Today, alarm clocks, work schedules, and digital connectivity push us into an artificial pace that our bodies and spirits were never designed for.

2. Busyness has become a status symbol.

Where wealth once meant leisure and rest, modern culture celebrates packed calendars, long work hours, and constant productivity.

3. Technology competes for your attention.

Smartphones and social media platforms are intentionally designed to capture and keep your attention through dopamine-driven feedback loops.

4. Hurry isn’t just stressful—it’s spiritual.

When our lives move too quickly, we lose the space required for reflection, prayer, and genuine connection with God.

5. Many of us are experiencing “hurry sickness.”

This condition describes the constant feeling of being rushed, anxious about time, and trying to accomplish more in less time.

Reflection Questions

Take a moment to sit with these questions:

  • Do you feel most productive only when you’re accomplishing tasks?
  • Do you struggle to rest without feeling lazy or unproductive?
  • Has busyness replaced intentional time with God?
  • Could your pace of life be preventing you from hearing God clearly?

Community Challenge: Digital Sabbath

The episode proposes a powerful challenge inspired by the book:

Turn off your phone for 24 hours.

A digital Sabbath allows you to:

  • Reset your mind
  • Break compulsive phone habits
  • Create space for rest and spiritual reflection

Consider trying this with the Blessed + Bossed Up community and observe what shifts in your awareness and connection with God.

What’s Coming Next

This episode focuses on diagnosing the problem of hurry. In the next episode, we’ll begin exploring the practical solutions John Mark Comer presents for slowing down and restoring spiritual health in a fast-paced world.

Resources Mentioned

  • The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer: https://amzn.to/4aSvzql




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Every week on Blessed + Bossed Up, you’ll find a conversation that sits at the intersection of practical business hustle and grounded spiritual faith. This isn’t about keeping those parts of life separate; it’s about integrating them to build a life of purpose and impact. Host Tatum Temia Ayomike brings her experience as an award-winning entrepreneur, author, and executive producer to each episode, but she comes first as a devoted Christian and a sister on the same path. The Anchored Media Network podcast provides a space where purposeful women can gather to discuss what it truly means to let God lead as the CEO of their ambitions. You’ll hear honest talk about the challenges of entrepreneurship, the necessity of an uncompromising faith, and the daily strategies-both divine and practical-needed to move forward. It’s for anyone who believes their success is a form of stewardship and wants to be equipped with clarity and courage. Tune in for a blend of mentorship, real-world insights, and spiritual encouragement designed to help you navigate the call on your life and business with confidence.
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