Winning Over Perfectionism

Winning Over Perfectionism

Author: SGI-USA April 26, 2024 Duration: 57:38

Buddhism teaches us that our lives are precious just as they are. This can be hard to believe if we struggle with self-criticism and strive for flawlessness. Fortunately, each time we chant Nam-myoho-renge-kyo, we tap into our limitless wisdom, courage, and compassion and challenge our inner critic head-on.

 

Today, Clark Harrell, of Seattle, Washington, shares how fighting perfectionism helped him enjoy his Buddhist practice, musical pursuits and everyday life. 

 

References: 

Discussions on Youth, p. 171

The Wisdom for Creating Happiness and Peace, part 1, revised edition,  p. 102

 

Cheat Sheet:

10:10 Clark discovers Buddhism through jazz

15:45 First steps in Buddhist practice

25:21 Placing self-worth in achievements

29:43 Getting support from his Buddhist community

41:09 Chanting without self-criticism

54:18 Community is the key to never giving up



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