322-Love comes like a thief - unexpectedly- Buddhism in daily life

322-Love comes like a thief - unexpectedly- Buddhism in daily life

Author: Shaolin-Rainer February 17, 2023 Duration: 5:28

Love comes like a thief - unexpectedly

We all want to be loved and to love. Love is beautiful, builds us up, gives us strength, we can move mountains when we love. Endless songs tell of beautiful love stories, there are love movies, love novels, a whole industry takes on love.

Not everyone will experience love in his life; others possibly several times, karma is karma, the history of our life is predetermined.

It doesn't help to beg fate, to present our wishes to the gods, love comes unexpectedly, just like a thief.

But what helps is to look forward to love, to prepare ourselves and our "I" for this possible moment, to become and be the person we want to present, the person we can be. In any case, if we make an effort for love, it is right and important.

Let's take examples:

A man who drinks all the time, gambles away his money, doesn't think about tomorrow, seeks only his satisfaction, would he be in great demand with women?

A woman who lets herself go, who doesn't care about her appearance, would she be in high demand among men?

Sure, a stereotypical approach, very graphic examples. But apt.

If you always liked to drink too much, you will behave like that in the future, love or not.

If you already always do not take care of yourself, then love will also hardly bring a change.

The correction must happen soon, we can't expect a partner to "change" us, that's not his job either. And this partner should not want to change us at all, otherwise the conditions are wrong. He should love us as we are.

We must become the person whom the partner can love without "if" and "but", i.e. we must "love ourselves" before we can be loved.

According to Buddhist teachings, everything is already written. So it is also already written if and when we will recognize our behavior, if we might even find "enlightenment". And also whether we find love is already determined.

And remember, love comes when you don't expect it.

THERE IS NOTHING MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN BEING LOVED, LOVED FOR ITS OWN SAKE OR RATHER IN SPITE OF ITSELF

- VICTOR HUGO - FRENCH WRITER - 1802 TO 1885

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You'll find a quiet, practical companion in Buddhism in daily life-Mindfulness in every day tasks, hosted by Shaolin-Rainer. This isn't about abstract philosophy; it's a hands-on guide for weaving the principles of Chan Buddhism directly into the fabric of your ordinary day. Rainer's voice serves as a gentle guide, offering short lectures that bridge timeless Asian spiritual practices with contemporary Western life, making ancient wisdom feel immediately accessible and useful. Each episode is a down-to-earth session, whether it's a guided meditation you can do while washing dishes or insights on finding stillness during a commute. The core of this podcast rests on the transformative power of mindfulness and genuine self-compassion, presented as tools to soften emotional struggles, nurture a sense of healing, and cultivate a quieter confidence. You'll encounter practical discussions on self-acceptance, approaches to managing anxiety, and the integration of movement practices like Yoga and Qi Gong as extensions of mindful awareness. Ultimately, tuning in is an invitation to discover the spiritual awakening hidden within your own routine, turning every task into an opportunity for presence and peace.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 50

Buddhism in daily life - Mindfulness in every day tasks
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