Practical Ways to Establish Boundaries & Stay Connected With Really Intense Kids #567

Practical Ways to Establish Boundaries & Stay Connected With Really Intense Kids #567

Author: Kirk Martin February 27, 2026 Duration: 41:13
This was an intense discussion that I jokingly referred to afterwards as an “interrogation” by the amazing hosts of the Bare Naked Moms Podcast, Alanna Leavell and Milano Buckley. These are two bright, insightful Moms asking tough questions and wrestling with their own issues. I think you will find it so helpful I asked if we could share this directly with our audience.  You can find the Bare Naked Moms Podcast on every podcasting platform. https://www.instagram.com/barenakedmoms/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If your household feels more like a courtroom with a strong-willed child who debates every request, take a breath. The Calm Parenting Podcast is a conversation for exactly that reality, hosted by Kirk Martin of Celebrate Calm. This isn't about theoretical ideals; it's built on direct experience from years of working with over 1,500 challenging kids, including those with AD/HD, OCD, ODD, and ASD, right in his own home. Kirk translates that hands-on work into concrete steps you can use immediately, strategies that have already shifted dynamics for more than a million parents and teachers worldwide. Each episode moves beyond the frustration of daily power struggles, yelling, and defiance to offer a different path forward. You'll hear practical, life-changing approaches that focus on connection over control, understanding what's really driving the behavior rather than just reacting to it. This podcast provides a sense of solidarity and actionable advice for transforming tense standoffs into cooperative relationships, making your home a calmer place for everyone. Tune in for grounded perspectives that help you respond with intention, not just emotion.
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Do You Need To Grieve The Child (& Childhood) You Didn’t Get? #528 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:55
“If you would simply do what I ask you to do, you would be done in 7 minutes. But you would rather argue with me for 7 hours or days or weeks or years and lose everything you own!” That was our son! I tried to change him…
Quick Tips for Dads Ep. 4: Don't Ask Your Wife to be the Referee [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:09
Because I couldn't control my own emotions, my wife had to walk on eggshells and manage my emotions for me. I put her in the position of having to be the referee between our son and me. I will show you exactly how to cha…
Face to Face With An Angry, Frustrated, Anxious Child #527 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 23:31
You are going to come face to face with a child who feels angry, frustrated, anxious…and ultimately helpless. I used to feel helpless as a parent and react just like my son. Until I finally learned how to connect and dif…
School Is Not That Important (& What IS Important) #524 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:50
Some of you have kids who have never liked school and never will. Does this mean they are doomed? Absolutely not. My goal is to prevent you from spending 18 years on needless worry, pressure, lectures, and power struggle…
Quick Tips for Dads Ep. 3: Discipline Without Drama [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:57
Your kids and wife won't respect you if you give consequences you can't actually enforce. Learn a different way to handle tough discipline without yelling or drama. Bonus tip? I show you how to teach kids impulse control…
A Different Way to Use Consequences (From Toddlers to Teens) #522 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 23:54
What should the consequence be for being disrespectful to a parent or teacher, not listening to you, not getting ready for bed on time, being mean to a sibling, coming home late, creating a mess, swearing, throwing a tan…
How to De-Escalate & Discipline Defiant Behavior #521 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 24:29
Your child is yelling and even saying hurtful things, maybe picking on siblings. Your natural response is to become resentful and angry—you bend over backwards for this challenging child and now they treat you like this?…