Out of Bounds - Rules vs Boundaries in the Lifestyle

Out of Bounds - Rules vs Boundaries in the Lifestyle

Author: Mickey & Mallory November 30, 2021 Duration: 1:19:10
So often when we meet folks we click with the conversation turns to “rules,” which often times become a checklist of things we shouldn’t do if we want the other side to continue engaging with us...that feels...wrong?  Is there a better conversation to have other than the “Pretty Woman,” conversation that goes something like this: “I’m pretty much a sure thing, but I never kiss on the mouth.”  What are some of our own boundaries & rules we’ve had over the years? What's the DIFFERENCE between a "rule," and a boundary? Want some sexy things for your stocking? Want to pick the best bourbon for a stocking STUFFER? We’ll get into all of it on this week’s Casual Swinger!   Casual Toys Kix'ies Womanizer Uberlube Daisy Corsets*  

Forget the hushed tones and clinical jargon. Casual Swinger-A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast is a frank, funny, and genuinely helpful conversation hosted by Mickey & Mallory, a couple who grew up around open relationships and now navigate them as adults. Their unique perspective, having parents who were also in the lifestyle, informs a dialogue that’s less about shock value and more about grounded, real-world experience. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair with two knowledgeable friends who’ve seen it all. They tackle the practicalities and emotions of non-monogamy, from communication and boundaries to health and navigating social dynamics, all through a lens of positivity and informed choice. This isn't a theoretical discussion; it's a podcast built on lived-in wisdom, where questions are met with candid answers and the complexities of modern relationships are explored without judgment. You'll hear personal stories, thoughtful advice, and a refreshing normalization of alternative relationship structures, all delivered with warmth and a disarming sense of humor. Whether you're actively exploring this path or simply curious about the realities behind the stereotypes, Mickey & Mallory offer a welcoming space to listen and learn.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast
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Duration: 1:13:05
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Slut Actualization - Exploring Mallory's Secret Hotwife Fantasy [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:05:22
In this house, slut is a good word! Over time Mallory’s journey of self actualization has actually been more of a...SLUT actualization. We explore one of her deepest fantasies on this episode, where Mallory talks about w…
Feels like the first time - Hedonism II Virgins Derek & Jess [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:50
Derek & Jess* were Hedo virgins before they met us, and now that they've made it home from their first ever trip to the most notorious resort on earth, Hedonism II, we catch up with them on some of the thought processes…