Cattitude - Episode 281 Toby, Gus & Me: Choosing a Life Plus Cats with Rebecca van Laer

Cattitude - Episode 281 Toby, Gus & Me: Choosing a Life Plus Cats with Rebecca van Laer

Author: Pet Life Radio October 16, 2025 Duration: 27:31
This week on Cattitude, Michelle Fern chats with writer and critic Rebecca van Laer about her debut memoir, Cat. Van Laer explores how our lives with cats reshape the wild we’ve tried to domesticate—what “tame,” “neuter,” and “indoors” say about nature and about us. She shares why she chose a life plus cats (not kids), and how “undomesticating” herself alongside her senior companions Toby and Gus reframed love, work, and family. From cats’ mysteriously divine histories to millennial burnout in a content-marketing grind, maternal fault lines, and the radical permission in feline laziness and pleasure, Rebecca’s reflections purr with humor and honesty—right down to Gus’s opinion: “I don’t want to be famous…I just want to go to the basement.”

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Ever find yourself wondering about the secret life of your feline or just wanting to understand that peculiar chirp at the window? Cattitude-The #1 Cat Podcast is a cozy, weekly conversation for anyone whose life is shared with cats, hosted by the knowledgeable and friendly duo Michelle Fern and Tom Dock. This isn't just a dry lecture; it's like sitting down with friends who happen to be experts. Each episode brings something new to the table, from a deep dive into a specific cat breed's history and personality to practical, vet-approved tips on keeping your cat healthy and happy. They also sift through the latest gadgets, foods, and toys so you know what's truly worth your while. Produced by Pet Life Radio, the podcast feels like a warm blanket and a purring cat in your lap-informative yet thoroughly comforting. Whether you're a seasoned cat owner, a curious kid, or a family thinking about adopting your first kitten, you'll find a place here. Tune in for stories, science, and a whole lot of heart, all dedicated to celebrating the wonderful complexity of cats.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

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