43. collective unhappiness

43. collective unhappiness

Author: JJ Lang, Julia Rios December 3, 2025 Duration: 57:35

The gang gets a phone call. 


Hosted by chess teacher JJ Lang and therapist Julia Rios, chessfeels: conversations about chess, psychology & mental health explores the intricate human experience behind the sixty-four squares. This isn't a series of dry lectures on openings or endgames, though improvement naturally surfaces through their discussions. Instead, each episode delves into the psychological landscape of the game-the pressure of competition, the sting of a loss, the joy of a creative breakthrough, and the peculiar obsessions that come with playing. You'll hear candid, often irreverent conversations that connect the strategic demands of chess to broader themes of mental fitness and personal growth. Lang and Rios create a space where the culture surrounding the game, from online play to tournament hall anxieties, is examined with equal parts insight and empathy. By weaving together perspectives from dedicated teaching and therapeutic practice, this podcast offers a unique lens on how the challenges we face over the board mirror those we navigate in everyday life. Tuning in feels like sitting in on a fascinating discussion between two experts who are deeply passionate about understanding why we play and how it affects us, making every episode a thoughtful companion for anyone who has ever felt the emotional weight of a move.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 46

chessfeels: conversations about chess, psychology & mental health
Podcast Episodes
45. what's underneath the floorboards [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:50
JJ talks about their year in chess that was and wasn't, which turns into a conversation with Julia about grief, loss, and self-knowledge. JJ references their essay on substack, which begins here: https://substack.com/hom…
44. listening [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:43
do you hear that? the board is trying to talk to you. Buy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some money
42. sit down, b3 humble [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:05:27
We're back! JJ and Julia have made several recordings in the past year, and are finally ready to start rolling them out. Here's the first one, it's about humility. Buy our really good merchTell us you love us by followin…
40: state of the union (we're sorry) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:07
It's been a while! JJ and Julia check in to tell everyone where they've been and where we (you! and us!) are going next. Buy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by givin…
39: the adhd episode part 2 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:51
JJ and Julia return to a fan favorite topic: adhd. This time, instead of hyperfocusing on their personal experiences with adhd, they hyperfocus on adhd testing, diagnosing, and, of course, what your opening choices say a…
37: a conversation with Maya Marlette, chess thief [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:38
JJ and Julia interview Maya Marlette, a student of JJ's with a really cool chess backstory and an even cooler day job. Buy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving…
36: chess therapy (no, not like that) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:00:00
Julia and JJ switch hats now that JJ is cured. They discuss how to find and keep motivation for chess studying when time and energy are in short supply. Buy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twi…
35: Isaac Haxton, the chess/poker boygenius who lived [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:20
Julia and JJ interview their old family friend, Isaac "Ike" Haxton. They catch up on Haxton's illustrious poker career, his less illustrious chess career, and everything in between. About Isaac: "Born in New York City, t…