Ep. 394 "This Too Shall Pass" ft. Ariel B. w/ hosts Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Ep. 394 "This Too Shall Pass" ft. Ariel B. w/ hosts Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Author: Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe May 16, 2024 Duration: 1:27:34
**TRIGGER WARNING: We want to let you know that today's episode addresses the topic of domestic violence, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know needs support, please reach out to trusted friends, family, or professional organizations. If you're in immediate danger, call emergency services.

This week we are joined by Ariel B., host of "This Too Shall Pass" podcast, who bravely shared her personal journey of surviving an abusive relationship, and finding herself after so many major life changing experiences. She sheds light on the importance of understanding family dynamics and relationships, particularly when warning signs are present, and how that directly impacted her life.

More detailed show notes below.

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Here are key takeaways from the episode that emphasize the significance of delving deeper into family dynamics:

Recognizing Warning Signs: Ariel candidly discussed how she overlooked crucial red flags in her relationship with her ex-husband, such as his anger issues and concerning behavior when under the influence. These warning signs were apparent early on but were not addressed or questioned at the time.
Family Background: Ariel stressed the importance of comprehending a partner's family background. She revealed that her ex-husband came from a family with a history of abuse and dysfunctional dynamics, potentially influencing his behavior. This underscores the need to investigate and understand a partner's family history to identify potential issues or patterns.
Impact on Children: Ariel's experience highlighted how family dynamics and relationships can impact children. Her son exhibited fear and discomfort around her ex-husband's behavior, illustrating the influence of family dynamics on children's emotional well-being.
Seeking Support: Ariel's friend played a pivotal role in supporting her by consistently checking in and encouraging open communication. This underscores the importance of having a supportive...

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