Ep. 449 "What If My Forever Love Missed the Exit?"

Ep. 449 "What If My Forever Love Missed the Exit?"

Author: Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe June 12, 2025 Duration: 1:24:40
This week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions is an emotional rollercoaster with equal parts healing and hilarious. Kiki opens up about her new project xoMan Podcast, launching June 17th, and how she landed not just the hosting gig—but a producer credit too. Medinah shares her recent deep dive into celibacy, her new purpose-driven journey, and what it’s like to feel truly lonely again. There’s real talk on forever love, how our grandparents' marriages shaped our ideals, and why modern dating has us asking, “Where did the real men go?” Oh—and of course, there’s a surprise golden shower story. Yes, you read that right. Whether you’re in your healed girl era or still making mistakes for the plot, this one’s for you. 

Topics Covered:
  • Medinah’s celibacy update & unexpected loneliness
  • Volunteering with Meals on Wheels & giving back
  • Kiki’s XO Man Podcast announcement + favorite upcoming guests
  • Reflections on forever love and generational relationships
  • Modern dating frustrations and “princess treatment” for men?!
  • When your dress rips during an interview with David Banner
  • Tips for summer reading, affordable audiobook apps & library perks
  • Weird Sex Story: A thunderclap headache and an unintentional golden shower
Cocktail of the Week:
🍸 Thirst Trappin’

  • 2 oz lime juice
  • 1 oz grapefruit juice
  • 0.5 oz elderflower liqueur or triple sec
  • Dash of agave
  • Tajín rim + lime wheel garnish
    Shake with ice, strain over fresh ice in a rocks glass.
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Grab a drink and get comfortable. CockTales: Dirty Discussions is that unfiltered conversation happening in the corner of your favorite bar, hosted by friends Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. With one navigating single life and the other rooted in a long-term relationship, their perspectives clash and complement in the most honest ways. This isn't a clinical advice show; it's a raw, comedic, and deeply personal journal of what modern dating, sex, and relationships actually feel like on the ground, specifically through the lens of life in Atlanta. Each episode feels like you’re pulling up a chair to their table as they dissect their latest encounters, frustrations, and triumphs with zero censorship. The laughter is genuine, the stories are real, and the discussions go to places most are too polite to mention. You’ll find this podcast lives in the messy, human intersection of society, culture, and personal revelation, all served with a hefty side of comedy. Tune in for the kind of candid talk that makes you nod in recognition, laugh out loud, and maybe even rethink your own approach to the complicated sea of love and connection.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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