Ep. 454 @sexwithashley on Dating, Pleasure & Her Cult Escape

Ep. 454 @sexwithashley on Dating, Pleasure & Her Cult Escape

Author: Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe July 28, 2025 Duration: 1:36:46
This week, we’re joined by sexual health expert, writer, and podcaster @sexwithashley for a raw, hilarious, and honest convo about dating as a sex-positive woman, escaping the grip of purity culture, and what she’s learned about pleasure along the way. From stairwell sex at an AAU tournament to popping cherries at the sex club, Ashley keeps it real about her personal journey with boundaries, ethical non-monogamy, and the myths people still hold about women who talk about sex.

We also get into: dating daddies, digmatization recovery, and why some men love the idea of a freak… until they actually meet one

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Grab a drink and get comfortable. CockTales: Dirty Discussions is that unfiltered conversation happening in the corner of your favorite bar, hosted by friends Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. With one navigating single life and the other rooted in a long-term relationship, their perspectives clash and complement in the most honest ways. This isn't a clinical advice show; it's a raw, comedic, and deeply personal journal of what modern dating, sex, and relationships actually feel like on the ground, specifically through the lens of life in Atlanta. Each episode feels like you’re pulling up a chair to their table as they dissect their latest encounters, frustrations, and triumphs with zero censorship. The laughter is genuine, the stories are real, and the discussions go to places most are too polite to mention. You’ll find this podcast lives in the messy, human intersection of society, culture, and personal revelation, all served with a hefty side of comedy. Tune in for the kind of candid talk that makes you nod in recognition, laugh out loud, and maybe even rethink your own approach to the complicated sea of love and connection.
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