Ep. 473 When Honesty Gets Uncomfortable with Kiara "Kiki Said So" Walker and Medinah Monroe

Ep. 473 When Honesty Gets Uncomfortable with Kiara "Kiki Said So" Walker and Medinah Monroe

Author: Kiki Said So December 28, 2025 Duration: 1:12:58
In this episode, Kiki and Medinah get into one of the hardest parts of adulthood: how to say uncomfortable things with love, tact, and intention. What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about honesty, boundaries, emotional awareness, and why so many people avoid hard conversations altogether.

From awkward truths like bad breath and body odor to deeper emotional feedback that can strain friendships and relationships, the ladies unpack why delivery matters just as much as truth. They talk about when honesty is helpful versus harmful, how personal experiences shape our ability to receive feedback, and why avoidance often feels easier than vulnerability.

The episode also explores relationship expectations, emotional maturity, and a listener write-in that sparks a real conversation about compatibility, communication, and knowing when something just isn’t aligned. Along the way, Kiki reflects on personal growth, past embarrassment, family dynamics, and learning how to pause before reacting, especially when emotions are high.

This is a funny, honest, and thought-provoking episode about growth, self-awareness, and learning how to communicate without tearing people down — or disappearing when things get uncomfortable.

If you’ve ever struggled with telling the truth, hearing the truth, or figuring out how to say the hard thing without hurting someone, this episode is for you.

Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!!

For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads

Contact Us!
Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com
Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com
Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com
Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com

Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com

Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com
Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com
Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe
Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.

CONNECT WITH US
Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode:

Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)
Instagram: @kikisaidso
TikTok: @kikisaidso

Cocktales With Kiki
Instagram:@cocktalespodcast
TikTok: @cocktalespodcast

Want to be a guest on Cocktales?

We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:
Guest Interest Form

Grab a drink and get comfortable. CockTales: Dirty Discussions is that unfiltered conversation happening in the corner of your favorite bar, hosted by friends Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. With one navigating single life and the other rooted in a long-term relationship, their perspectives clash and complement in the most honest ways. This isn't a clinical advice show; it's a raw, comedic, and deeply personal journal of what modern dating, sex, and relationships actually feel like on the ground, specifically through the lens of life in Atlanta. Each episode feels like you’re pulling up a chair to their table as they dissect their latest encounters, frustrations, and triumphs with zero censorship. The laughter is genuine, the stories are real, and the discussions go to places most are too polite to mention. You’ll find this podcast lives in the messy, human intersection of society, culture, and personal revelation, all served with a hefty side of comedy. Tune in for the kind of candid talk that makes you nod in recognition, laugh out loud, and maybe even rethink your own approach to the complicated sea of love and connection.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Cocktales with Kiki
Podcast Episodes
Don't Make Me Match Your Energy [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:12:17
What happens when somebody switches up on you — do you protect your peace, address it, or give them exactly the same energy back?This week on CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into the difference between setting a boundary…
The RSVP | Who Shows Up,Who Flakes, And What It Really Means [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:53
In this solo episode of CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into what it really means to show up — for your friends, your relationships, and yourself. After a Sip & Spill caller admits she’s nervous about planning a party onl…
PROSECCO, PLOT TWISTS & POOR DECISIONS ft. Dree Taylor [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:43:12
Every sip has a story… and apparently one glass of Prosecco has about 20.Dree Taylor is back, and this week we're catching up on everything from the RHOA reunion and our latest reality TV opinions to moving drama, family…
The Next Chapter: New Studio, New Show, Same Ol' Kiki [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:50
Welcome to **The Next Chapter of CockTales with Kiki** — new studio, new show, but don’t worry… it’s still the same ol’ Kiki.In this first official episode of the new era, Kiki is catching Production up on what’s changin…
Special Delivery: "The End of an Era" ft. Medinah Monroe [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:30
It’s the end of an era...but not CockTales.Medinah returns to CockTales one final time to share what she’s been up to, what she’s learned during this season of transition, and why she made the difficult decision to step…
Is It the Move… or Is Mercury Drinking Gatorade Again? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 40:27
Kiki is recording on fumes in the middle of moving week, surrounded by boxes, broken nails, damaged furniture, and enough bickering to make her wonder whether the stress is coming from the move or Mercury being in Gatora…
QTNA: Questions That Need Answers [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:20
QTNA: Questions That Need AnswersKiki has questions…and apparently, y’all are production now, so it’s time to clock in. 😂 This week, she’s catching you up on the chaos, the changes happening behind the scenes at CockTale…
Ep. 497 "The Neighborhood Watch" [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:14
This week, Kiki is taking roll call: Production, where y’all at?From the pressure to be a “girl’s girl” to the very real question of whether we need everybody to like us, Kiki gets into the complicated ways we show up fo…
EP. 496 "THE SHOT HEARD AROUND THE INTERWEBS" [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:05
I'm back this week and we have more updates! I'm also answering questions from IG and this time, I didn't forget the news on the BABY!VB Health- Try SOAKING WETGet 10% off SOAKING WET from VB Health with code COCKTALES v…