How to Desire Body Change Without Self-Hate: Embracing Acceptance While Pursuing Goals, Ep 9 Waiting for Weight Loss Series

How to Desire Body Change Without Self-Hate: Embracing Acceptance While Pursuing Goals, Ep 9 Waiting for Weight Loss Series

Author: Heather Creekmore - Christian Body Image Author and Speaker March 9, 2026 Duration: 10:44

Welcome back to the "Waiting for Weight Loss" Lenten series on the Compared to Who? Podcast! In this heartfelt episode, host Heather Creekmore dives deep into the challenge so many face: How can we desire body change or weight loss while still honoring, loving, and accepting the bodies we have—right now?

Episode Highlights:

  • Heather Creekmore unpacks why self-hatred is NOT a biblical motivator for change, and what healthier (and more effective) alternatives look like.

  • You’ll hear practical, grace-filled advice on:

    • Buying clothes that fit and flatter your body today, not waiting for a “goal weight.”

    • Stopping the cycle of body checking, mirror scanning, and anxious self-critique.

    • Shifting your mindset from shame-driven to gratitude-driven, even if you’re still on the journey to acceptance.

    • Releasing comparison and learning to thank your body for all it’s helped you accomplish, instead of shaming it for what it’s not.

    • Embracing the foundation of being loved and accepted by Jesus as you are, regardless of your current size or shape.

Key Takeaways:

  • It's absolutely possible to want change for your body without making shame your motivation.

  • Acceptance now actually sets you up for healthier choices later—no more waiting for the "perfect" time or body.

  • True transformation starts with knowing you are already fully loved in Christ.

Join the Community:
Don’t try to tackle these tough topics alone! Join our free Waiting for Weight Loss community at waitingforweightloss.com and connect with other like-minded Christian women, get your questions answered, and receive coaching and encouragement on your journey.

Let’s heal together—and walk through Lenten transformation with acceptance, dignity, and hope.


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Heather Creekmore, a Christian body image author and speaker, hosts Compared to Who? Body Image for Christian Women. This space is for women who are exhausted by the constant pressure to measure up, whether it's to cultural ideals of beauty, fitness goals, or even spiritual performance. It’s common to know scripture about your worth in Christ yet feel a disconnect when you look in the mirror or navigate daily life. This podcast directly addresses that gap, moving beyond simplistic self-help or well-meaning clichés that often leave you feeling more defeated. Instead, conversations are grounded in a thoughtful blend of faith, mental health, and practical wellness. You’ll hear honest discussions about how spirituality intersects with the very real struggles of body image, diet culture, and personal comparison. Each episode aims to provide not just encouragement but tangible steps to help you live out your God-given identity with freedom and confidence. The goal is a stronger, more integrated faith that transforms how you see yourself, not by the world’s ever-changing standards, but through a lens of grace and truth. Tune in for a candid and compassionate resource that meets you right where you are.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

Compared to Who? Body Image for Christian Women
Podcast Episodes
Is God Happy When I Lose Weight? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 23:33
Has the weigh-in woman at Weight Watchers shaped your concept of God? Today's episode was inspired when Heather heard a story of a woman whose body image issues and eating disorders could be traced back to the ever-prese…
What if I Just Want a Body I'm Proud of? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 26:42
In this summer replay, Heather digs into this common sentiment, "I just want to feel good" or "I just want to feel okay" about my body. What's wrong with wanting a body you can be "proud of?" She explores how this is a s…
Surrendering Certainty: How Do We Trust in God and Not Our Plans [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:15
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How Do I Get Over What Others Think of Me Coaching Presli [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:09
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What to Do if You Feel Like the Fattest Person in the Room? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 25:54
Have you ever felt like you were the fattest or ugliest person in the room? Maybe you showed up at an event and feel self-conscious because everyone is smaller or better looking than you. It's happened to all of us, but…
Should I Worry About My BMI? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:37
Stressing over your BMI? Perhaps a recent doctor's visit has you spiraling over what you need to do to change your Body Mass Index. Today, Heather sits down with two authors who have researched the history, background, a…
Will Dance Give My Daughter Body Image Issues? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:59
Have you ever wondered if participating in dance could lead to body image issues? Heather talks to clients with a dance background and have body image issues from what a dance instructor said or from participating in an…
Will Ozempic Weight Loss Drugs Fix My Body Image Issues? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:55
In today's "Me vs. ChatGPT" episode, Heather tackles the topic of Ozempic and other GLP-1 agonist medications that are now being prescribed to people for weight loss. She uses ChatGPT to help answer the question, "Will O…
How to Try on a Swimsuit if You Don't Like How Your Body Looks [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:04
Today Heather tackles a topic relevant to many women in May: How to try on a swimsuit if you don't like how your body looks. If you're struggling with how your body looks but needing some swimwear for the season ahead, H…