Find Healthier Ways to Preach on Sex with Sheila Wray Gregoire

Find Healthier Ways to Preach on Sex with Sheila Wray Gregoire

Author: Steve Carter May 23, 2023 Duration: 55:17
Sex is designed by God to be a gift, but tragically, it’s horribly misused to objectify women一not only in the world at-large一but also in the church. In this episode, Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of The Great Sex Rescue, She Deserves Better, and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, explains some heartbreaking trends in evangelicalism: Why sex has become about male entitlement and female obligation, rather than an mutual expression of intimacy and pleasure How gender stereotypes about sexual drive and wiring have damaged women What many of the prominent evangelical books and curriculums about sex get terribly wrong (and the cost of those mistakes) Based on years of extensive research, Sheila also explains to Steve Carter how the church can recover from the blunders of purity culture: How the church can talk about sex in a healthy way Tips for pastors offering premarital counseling Advice for honeymooning couples who feel crippled by pressure to perform on their first night together Five essentials to help align a couple’s libido in a way that’s considerate, not manipulative God’s heart for us, sex included, is to find healing and wholeness. So listen well. Learn. Pray that God’s Spirit will transform the broken perceptions and practices we subconsciously (or intentionally) embody. It’s only when we recognize (and repent of) what’s marred and broken that we can savor what’s beautiful. EPISODE LINKS Sheila’s books: The Great Sex Rescue, She Deserves Better, The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex Her ministry: Bare Marriage Website: https://sheilawraygregoire.com @sheilagregoire @steveryancarter @craft_character

Steve Carter hosts Craft & Character, a space where the art of preaching meets the inward journey of the preacher. This isn't about quick tips or isolated techniques; it's a deep, thoughtful exploration of how who you are fundamentally shapes what you say from the pulpit. Each episode rests on a central, challenging question: are you merely transferring religious information, or are you speaking from a place that has been genuinely and personally transformed? The conversations in this podcast argue that authentic, impactful communication of faith cannot happen without the messenger's own life being shaped by the very truths they proclaim. You'll hear Steve engage with a variety of voices on the intricate blend of skill development and spiritual formation. The discussions are grounded in practical wisdom for the craft of sermon preparation and delivery, while always circling back to the essential priority of character, integrity, and a vibrant personal walk. Designed for those in ministry, from seasoned pastors to those just starting out, this podcast offers a rare and refreshing honesty about the pressures and privileges of the role. It’s for anyone who believes that teaching well requires living well first, making Craft & Character a vital resource for personal growth and professional development within the realms of faith and leadership.
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