A learning perspective on conflict

A learning perspective on conflict

Author: Jane Beddall June 19, 2025 Duration: 3:40

My most recent guest, Russell Harvey, talked with me about resilience. In fact, he defines resilience this way: “Resilience is the ability to cope with life’s challenges and become stronger as a result.”

What if we apply that definition specifically to interpersonal conflicts? A viewpoint that we can improve our “ability to cope with life’s conflicts and become stronger as a result”, to echo Russell’s words. I would say that it’s worth a try. 

Do you have comments or suggestions about a topic or guest? An idea or question about conflict management or conflict resolution? Let me know at jb@dovetailresolutions.com! And you can learn more about me and my work as a mediator and a Certified CINERGY® Conflict Coach at www.dovetailresolutions.com and https://www.linkedin.com/in/janebeddall/.

Enjoy the show for free on your favorite podcast app or on the podcast website: https://craftingsolutionstoconflict.com/


In a world where disagreements often feel like dead ends, Crafting Solutions to Conflict offers a different path-one built on practical tools and a genuinely constructive mindset. Hosted by Jane Beddall, whose background in both law and mediation brings a unique depth to the conversation, this podcast moves beyond theory to the everyday realities of navigating tension. You’ll hear discussions that reframe conflict not as something to dread, but as a potential catalyst for stronger connections and better outcomes, whether at home, in the workplace, or within your community. Each episode feels like a thoughtful dialogue, unpacking familiar yet challenging concepts. Jane guides listeners through ideas like addressing the ‘elephants in the room,’ finding ways to ‘expand the pie’ for mutual gain, and understanding why ‘cookie-cutter’ solutions often fall short. The focus is consistently on preserving valued relationships by preventing unnecessary damage and resolving issues that do arise with clarity and respect. Tuning into this podcast provides more than just advice; it’s an ongoing exploration of how to build and restore harmony through intentional communication. If you’re looking for actionable perspectives that blend wisdom from the realms of society, business, and personal growth, you’ll find a trusted resource here.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Crafting Solutions to Conflict
Podcast Episodes
Mediation defined, expanded, embraced [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:42
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What mediation isn't [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:37
I’ve been diving into helping people handle conflict for many years. Decades now. Early on, more than a few people could get mixed up about mediation and meditation. Fortunately, I haven’t seen that kind of mix-up for a…
Janet Ettele on How Joyous Effort Works [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 25:20
Janet Ettele joins me to talk about her new book, How Joyous Effort Works. It’s the fourth in her How Life Works series. Through her books, Janet presents an accessible introduction to Buddhist principles, using the time…
Fan favorites of 2024 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:22
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The Golden Rule concept in ten world religions [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 4:16
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Kelly McDonald on working with people not like you [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:08
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Satisfying vs. productive [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 4:00
Satisfying or productive? In a way, an expansion on the idea of stopping yourself from uttering that clever, snarky comeback. Definitely might be satisfying, but unlikely to be productive. More likely to be harmful: crea…
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Duration: 27:25
Rabbi Daniel Cohen joins me to talk about his book, What Will They Say About You When You Are Gone?: Creating a Life of Legacy. We discuss how we all create that legacy every day, even in the smallest moments. We talk ab…
Grateful is good; let's add gracious [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:47
It’s Thanksgiving week here in the U.S. We are encouraged, of course, to reflect on what we can be grateful for. There is more focus on our inward directed reflection than on expressing our gratitude to those around us.…
Accepting a lousy option [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:27
When you are truly stuck with a lousy option and need to accept it, what process can you follow?First, acknowledging the frustration. The grief. The loss. Second, trying to keep the finger-pointing and blame to a minimum…