267  |  Don't Talk to Me About Self Care  |  What is Self Care?

267 | Don't Talk to Me About Self Care | What is Self Care?

Author: Amber Cammidge August 15, 2025 Duration: 23:23

Hey Guys!

What if "self-care" isn't about bubble baths or spa days… but about cleaning your toilet?

Stay with me here. In today's episode of Declutter Your Chaos, I'm breaking down the myth of self-care, why the word selfless makes me want to scream, and how decluttering is actually one of the most radical acts of self-love you can practice.

We'll talk about:

  • Why calling women selfless is not a compliment (and why I hate when people do it)

  • The difference between self-care and self-love — and why the language we use matters

  • Why decluttering is so much more than "just cleaning" — it's about self-worth, clarity, and reclaiming your energy

  • A simple 3-step plan to start treating decluttering as self-care, even if you only have 15 minutes

By the end of this episode, you'll have a clear, actionable way to nurture yourself that doesn't involve pretending a bubble bath will fix your exhaustion. Instead, you'll see how even the smallest act of clearing clutter can shift your energy, your mindset, and your sense of worthiness.

Because you deserve a home that supports you — not one that drains you.

 

🛑 Disclaimer:
I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.


Hosted by Amber Cammidge, Declutter Your Chaos-Mindful Minimalism is a conversation about the tangible and intangible things that fill our space. This podcast moves beyond simple organizing tips to explore the intersection of physical clutter and mental well-being, offering a grounded perspective for anyone feeling overwhelmed by their surroundings. Episodes blend actionable, manageable strategies for tidying your home with thoughtful discussions on the emotional habits and subconscious attachments that make letting go so difficult. You’ll hear about resetting daily routines, creating sustainable systems that align with your actual lifestyle, and examining the underlying 'why' behind the accumulation of stuff. The focus is on cultivating a home environment that actively supports your health and goals, rather than working against them. Tuning in provides a practical yet compassionate framework for editing your possessions and, by extension, your mindset. It’s a resource for making lasting changes that free up physical space and create mental clarity, all approached with a sense of realism and encouragement. This is for those ready to move from intention to action, finding calm and capability by thoughtfully curating their world.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Declutter Your Chaos - Mindful Minimalism
Podcast Episodes
366  |  Guided Mindful Decluttering Session  |  Decluttering the Basement [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:15
Hi Friends! Do you have boxes you've been meaning to go through for years? In this guided decluttering meditation, we'll use breath, mindfulness, and simple decision-making to move through an overwhelming space one objec…
365 |  How Self Abandonment Becomes Clutter [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 23:07
In this episode, Amber explores the connection between boundaries, mindfulness, self-abandonment, and clutter. Through personal reflections on marriage, divorce, and blurred emotional boundaries, she unpacks how many wom…
364  |  The Reason Why People Fail at Decluttering [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 17:13
Hey Friends, You want to know the secret to getting your whole house decluttered? Well it's in this episode. When people just jump in without a plan they end up getting overwhelmed and quitting. Here's how to avoid that!…
362  |  Garage Decluttering Series Part 3-Process & Protect Phase [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 20:25
➡️ To join my free 2-day workshop click HERE. Hey Guys, You've already done the hardest part. You made the decisions. You created the piles. You moved through the garage without avoiding it. Now this episode is where eve…
361  |  Garage Decluttering Series Part 2-Purge Phase [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:42
➡️ To join my free 2-day workshop click HERE. Hey Friends! This episode is a guided, repeatable decluttering session you can use for each zone of your garage. You'll: Work in one defined area at a time Set a timer (2–3 h…
360  |  Garage Decluttering Series Part 1-Prep Phase [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:04
➡️ To join my free 2-day workshop click HERE. Hey Friends, Your garage isn't just a storage space. It's where delayed decisions go. In this first part of the garage series—you're setting yourself up so you actually follo…
359  |  3 Hacks to Get You to Start Decluttering [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:31
➡️ To join my free 2-day workshop click HERE. In this episode, I'm sharing a real weekend—and why it's so hard to start decluttering, even when you want to. It's not that you don't care. It's that when it's time to begin…
358  | Why You Can't Declutter - Even When You Want To [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 20:07
Clutter isn't just about having too much. It's about not having a clear internal reference point for what stays and what goes. In this episode, I walk through the deeper pattern underneath clutter: disconnection from sel…
357  |  Decluttering Blocked Emotions with Dr. Bradley Nelson [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:40
🙌To join my free 2-day workshop click HERE. In this episode, Dr. Bradley Nelson shares how emotional "clutter" stored in the body can impact your mental clarity, stress levels, and overall sense of peace — and how releas…