how to effectively listen when you debate at work

how to effectively listen when you debate at work

Author: Oscar Trimboli August 13, 2024 Duration: 40:11

This episode delves into the critical role of listening, particularly in the context of debates and the competitive advantage provided to participants.

Sasan Kisravi explains the significance of preparation in debate, especially when preparing both sides of the argument.

When preparing both sides of an argument, you can discover and  anticipate the counterpoints that will help you discover multiple approaches to the same issue.

The concept of "competitive listening" is emphasized, and it is important to understand an opponent's argument and analyze its impact on the judge and audience.

Note-taking is a crucial tool for effective listening, but there is a difference between traditional note-taking and a more strategic approach. The latter involves creating a visual map of arguments, identifying key points, and tracking the flow of the discussion.

This method allows listeners to maintain focus, identify unaddressed points, and ultimately gain a clearer understanding of the debate.

The conversation also touches on the psychological aspects of listening, highlighting the importance of motivation and purpose.

By understanding the nuances of effective listening, individuals can improve their communication skills, build stronger relationships, and achieve greater success at work.

 

  • Listening is a competitive advantage: Effective Listening is crucial for success in debates and workplace communication.
  • Preparation is key: Understanding both sides of an argument and anticipating counterpoints is essential for effective listening and responding.
  • Note-taking is a strategic tool: Creating visual maps of arguments helps maintain focus, identify key points, and analyze the flow of the discussion.

 

 

www.listening.com

Where to start? Start here

How to listen like a High Court Judge with Justice Michael Kirby

Listen like World Memory Champion Dr Boris Konrad

Brooklyn Debate League

01:38:00 - The complete Munk Debate - Mainstream Media featuring Douglas Murray, Matt Taibbi, Malcolm Gladwell, Michelle Goldberg November 30, 2022

00:47:36 The original Phuskin Industries Revisionist History Podcast Episode - Malcolm goes to debate school – complete audio episode April 13, 2023

00:10:10 Douglas Murray on Malcolm Gladwell: "I Still Don't Feel Pity"

 


Most of us spend over half our working hours listening, yet almost no one has ever been taught how to do it well. The result is a cycle of frustration and missed connections, where genuine understanding feels just out of reach. Deep Listening-Impact beyond words-Oscar Trimboli moves past the simple mechanics of hearing to explore the profound space where real impact is made. Hosted by Oscar Trimboli, this series tackles the silent gaps in our conversations-the assumptions, distractions, and unspoken cues that derail collaboration and leadership. Each episode breaks down the tangible skills needed to listen beyond words, focusing on the physical, mental, and emotional layers that most overlook. You’ll hear practical techniques drawn from research and real-world scenarios, designed for leaders, managers, and anyone who needs to navigate complex workplace relationships. This isn’t about passive hearing; it’s about an active, disciplined practice that transforms meetings, feedback, and negotiations. By tuning into this podcast, you gain a framework to quiet the internal and external noise, creating the clarity that leads to better decisions and deeper human connection. Trimboli guides you through shifting from simply waiting to speak to truly understanding, turning a fundamental skill into your most powerful professional tool.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Deep Listening - Impact beyond words - Oscar Trimboli
Podcast Episodes
the significant consequences when you can decode non-verbal cues [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:50
The importance of listening at Level II, which is three-dimensional hear, see, and sense Noticing nonverbal cues and their congruence with their words is a vital skill toward becoming a deeper listener. While these cues…
What can you learn from over 33,519 workplace listeners? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:16
Insights from 33,519 people about what gets in their way of listening and practical tips about what will imrpove your listening. An update on the fourth generation www.listeningquiz.com including; aggregate listening pro…
the hidden clues when you listen well in low trust group meetings [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:34
This episode of Deep Listening Impact Beyond Words explores the art of listening in diplomatic cross-cultural meetings, drawing insights from British Foreign Secretary James Cleverly's discussion with Cindy Yu on The Spe…