Not Even A Hint with Blair @TalkPurityToMe

Not Even A Hint with Blair @TalkPurityToMe

Author: SecretMullet Productions November 23, 2022 Duration: 1:38:50
This week we’re talking purity! This week’s guest co-host is Blair from TalkPurityToMe–we discuss growing up in house churches, and some of the ways we were taught about purity and modesty, as well as some of the ways we are still feeling the aftermath. We also hear stories from the Bad Apples. Brought to you by Date Me Jesus Timestamps: Date Me Jesus (feat Virginia Spotts) - 22:15 Topic: Purity - 29:53 Modesty clip - 41:39 John Piper clip - 58:04 Bad Apple Submissions - 1:05:02 SSR - 1:21:21 BOTANY FARMS CBD AFFILIATE LINK: https://bit.ly/3h5HKXe National Resources Trevor Project: Call (866) 488-7386, Text 678-678, 24/7 Year round crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) young people ages 13-24. PFLAG 400+ chapters across the country providing confidential peer support, education, and advocacy to LGBTQ+ people, their parents and families, and allies. Crisis Text Line: Text START to 741-741-FREE, 24/7 support for those in crisis. Text from anywhere in the U.S. to connect with a trained Crisis Counselor. The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline: (888) 843-4564 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): (800) 246-7743 Trans Lifeline: (877) 565-8860 GLAAD The Center  Colorado Resources Colorado Crisis Services Hotline: Call 1-844-493-8255 or text “TALK” to 38255 to speak with a trained counselor or professional. Counselors are also available at walk-in locations or online to chat between 4 p.m. and 12 a.m. Out Boulder County  Inside Out Youth Services One Colorado Transgender Center of the Rockies Queer Asterisk A Phoenix Rising, LLC: Offering pro bono services for crisis help for the victims and those affected. New Foundation Counseling: Offering pro bono services for crisis help for the victims and those affected.Colorado resources Colorado Crisis Services hotline: Call 1-844-493-8255 or text “TALK” to 38255 to speak with a trained counselor or professional. Counselors are also available at walk-in locations or online to chat between 4 p.m. and 12 a.m. Out Boulder County  Inside Out Youth Services One Colorado Transgender Center of the Rockies Queer Asterisk A Phoenix Rising, LLC: Offering pro bono services for crisis help for the victims and those affected. New Foundation Counseling: Offering pro bono services for crisis help for the victims and those affected. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There’s a particular experience that comes with growing up deep inside a certain kind of church community, and then stepping out into a world that operates on a completely different frequency. Dirty Rotten Church Kids is a conversation about that disorienting, often hilarious, and deeply meaningful journey. From SecretMullet Productions, this podcast serves as a long-running dialogue between friends who’ve lived it, exploring how the frameworks of faith, doubt, and upbringing collide with everyday life, creative expression, and broader culture. You’ll hear candid discussions that aren’t afraid to sit in the tension-episodes can swing from dissecting a profound spiritual question to unpacking the weird nostalgia of evangelical subculture with a lot of laughter. It’s specifically crafted for anyone who knows the lingo, the unspoken rules, and the unique baggage, but is now navigating the vast and complicated landscape beyond that bubble. The tone is intentionally both heavy and light, because that’s what the process actually feels like. Tune in for a sense of camaraderie and some thoughtful, relatable reflection on making your own path.
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This week was such a blast. We got to speak with Lauren Scott (Therapist! Sex Coach!) about all things pleasure. We discuss growing up in White Evangelical Purity Culture, unlearning religious shame and engaging with del…
When We Embrace Shame w/ Matthias Roberts [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:29:34
In this episode we speak to Matthias Roberts, author of 'Beyond Shame' and podcast host of 'Queerology'. We talk about how purity culture drives sexual shame, ways we deal with those messages and talk about better ways f…
The God We Are Left With [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:29:22
In Episode 23 we talk about The Man Upstairs™; how we were taught about God, how that has changed for us and what of The Divine remains. We also talk about worship music, Jerry Falwell Jr's unbuttoned pants and hear stor…
Leaving Yourself at the Door [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:30:51
This week on DRCK we talk about Church Family! We unpack the reality of conditional acceptance, Christian homogenization and the challenge of finding community after deconstruction. We also share a biblical storytime med…
Who Christianity Belongs To w/ Jo Luehmann [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:54:44
This epsiode may be our favorite to date. We speak to author, speaker, content creator and community builder Jo Luehmann. We discuss decolonizing faith, narcissism within the church and the body's response to spiritual t…
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Duration: 2:20:49
One of the most asked questions we receive is, "are you Christians?" and this week we answer that question. We talk about what the term Christian represented growing up, how it has been hijacked and how we feel about it…
The Messy Inner Work w/ Steph Barron Hall of @NineTypesCo [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:35:56
This week we talk to Steph Hall (@ninetypesco!). She is an Enneagram coach, digital community builder, and author of the new book "The Enneagram in Love". We talk about her faith deconstruction, explore how evangelicalis…
Putting Away White God w/ Brandon Lubin and Nick Murray [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:34:38
In episode 18 we talk to our friends, multi-disciplinary artists Brandon Lubin and Nick Murray. We talk about ways the church hijacks creative exploration, homogenizes behavior, and quiets activism. Our guests discuss be…
Breaking Mama's Heart [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:03:21
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You Are a River w/ NakedPastor David Hayward [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:35:51
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