472. Going Back to a Cheating Ex, How to Get Over Being Ghosted and Moving Cities in a Search For Love

472. Going Back to a Cheating Ex, How to Get Over Being Ghosted and Moving Cities in a Search For Love

Author: Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach February 10, 2026 Duration: 36:54

In this Head Noise episode, I answer three listener questions that sit right at the intersection of hope, attachment, and self-betrayal the kind of decisions that feel impossible when you’re emotionally involved.

We talk about:

  • Whether you should leave a life you love to move cities in the hope of finding a partner

  • What to do when your cheating ex wants you back, is in therapy, and swears they’ve changed, especially when you’ve already moved on with someone else

  • How to emotionally detach and move forward after being slowly ghosted by someone you thought things were going really well with

This episode breaks down the psychology behind:

  • Making life decisions from loneliness vs self-trust

  • Sex addiction, and the difference between change and intention

  • Why ghosting hurts so much

  • Choosing yourself without spiralling into guilt or doubt

As always, Head Noise episodes are about cutting through the emotional fog and helping you see what’s actually happening, so you can make decisions that protect your peace and self-respect.



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Hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa, Do You F*cking Mind? delivers practical, science-backed mindset tools for anyone looking to cut through internal clutter and build a more resilient, self-directed life. This isn't abstract theory; it's applied neuroscience and psychology for your real-world problems. Each Monday, Alexis releases an in-depth episode exploring a single theme, dissecting topics like the mechanics of habit formation, navigating complex friendships, processing heartbreak, or cultivating a genuinely carefree approach to daily pressures. The focus is on actionable strategies, explaining not just what to do but how the brain works to make those changes stick. Then, every Friday, the format shifts to "Head Noise," a dedicated Q&A session where Alexis directly tackles listener-submitted questions, offering personalized insights and clarifications. The tone is direct, unapologetically candid, and free of fluff, mirroring the podcast's title. It’s a blend of rigorous science and street-smart wisdom, all aimed at empowering you to audit your own thoughts and behaviors. For those ready to move past passive listening and into active self-improvement, this podcast serves as a weekly mental toolkit. Listeners are encouraged to engage by sending their own questions for the Friday episodes.
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