473. Going Back to the Person Who Ghosted Me, Sister in Law Drama, and Wanting Out of a “Good” Relationship - Head Noise

473. Going Back to the Person Who Ghosted Me, Sister in Law Drama, and Wanting Out of a “Good” Relationship - Head Noise

Author: Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach February 12, 2026 Duration: 30:18

In this Head Noise episode, we’re unpacking three very different dilemmas that all come down to trust, discomfort, and self-honesty.

We talk about:

  • What to do when you get back with someone who previously ghosted you, and the trust issues won’t go away

  • How to build a relationship with your sister-in-law when you fundamentally don’t see eye to eye

  • Why you might want to leave a “lovely” boyfriend, and how to know if you’re making a mistake or finally listening to yourself

This episode covers:

  • Rebuilding trust after being ghosted (and whether it’s actually possible)

  • Why good on paper doesn’t always mean right for you

  • Fear of regret vs fear of staying stuck

  • Choosing peace over potential

If you’ve ever stayed because you were scared to hurt someone, gone back to someone who hurt you, or felt guilty for wanting something different, this one will hit.

As always, Head Noise is about cutting through the emotional fog and helping you make decisions that align with your self-respect.



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Hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa, Do You F*cking Mind? delivers practical, science-backed mindset tools for anyone looking to cut through internal clutter and build a more resilient, self-directed life. This isn't abstract theory; it's applied neuroscience and psychology for your real-world problems. Each Monday, Alexis releases an in-depth episode exploring a single theme, dissecting topics like the mechanics of habit formation, navigating complex friendships, processing heartbreak, or cultivating a genuinely carefree approach to daily pressures. The focus is on actionable strategies, explaining not just what to do but how the brain works to make those changes stick. Then, every Friday, the format shifts to "Head Noise," a dedicated Q&A session where Alexis directly tackles listener-submitted questions, offering personalized insights and clarifications. The tone is direct, unapologetically candid, and free of fluff, mirroring the podcast's title. It’s a blend of rigorous science and street-smart wisdom, all aimed at empowering you to audit your own thoughts and behaviors. For those ready to move past passive listening and into active self-improvement, this podcast serves as a weekly mental toolkit. Listeners are encouraged to engage by sending their own questions for the Friday episodes.
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