The Modern Dating Survival Guide | with Jake and Ottie from Relatables

The Modern Dating Survival Guide | with Jake and Ottie from Relatables

Author: Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach August 20, 2026 Duration: 1:05:01

In today's ep of the pod,  Jake and Otti from the Relatables join me to discuss the Modern Dating Survival Guide. We dive into the world of relationships, sharing their thoughts on what men and women often get wrong in their pursuit of love.

We talk about the importance of emotional maturity to the dangers of societal expectations, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the dating scene.

Jake and Otti bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing topics like the things men think women care about that women actually don't, and the red flags that might indicate a partner is not the right fit. 

I had the best time with these guys chatting all things dating and misconceptions. I hope you enjoy it as much as we did making this episode. 

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Hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa, Do You F*cking Mind? delivers practical, science-backed mindset tools for anyone looking to cut through internal clutter and build a more resilient, self-directed life. This isn't abstract theory; it's applied neuroscience and psychology for your real-world problems. Each Monday, Alexis releases an in-depth episode exploring a single theme, dissecting topics like the mechanics of habit formation, navigating complex friendships, processing heartbreak, or cultivating a genuinely carefree approach to daily pressures. The focus is on actionable strategies, explaining not just what to do but how the brain works to make those changes stick. Then, every Friday, the format shifts to "Head Noise," a dedicated Q&A session where Alexis directly tackles listener-submitted questions, offering personalized insights and clarifications. The tone is direct, unapologetically candid, and free of fluff, mirroring the podcast's title. It’s a blend of rigorous science and street-smart wisdom, all aimed at empowering you to audit your own thoughts and behaviors. For those ready to move past passive listening and into active self-improvement, this podcast serves as a weekly mental toolkit. Listeners are encouraged to engage by sending their own questions for the Friday episodes.
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