The Reset You Actually Need - Day 2. You Don't Need a New Life, You Need New Standards

The Reset You Actually Need - Day 2. You Don't Need a New Life, You Need New Standards

Author: Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach January 12, 2026 Duration: 23:45

The Reset You Actually Need – Day 2

Feeling like you need to change everything to finally feel better?

In Day 2 of The Reset You Actually Need, we explore why most people don’t actually need a dramatic reinvention they need higher standards for what they allow, tolerate, and repeatedly recover from.

This episode breaks down:

  • Why dissatisfaction is often a standards issue, not a life problem

  • How low standards quietly drain energy, confidence

  • Why raising standards isn’t about being rigid or “too much”

  • How to upgrade your internal rules without changing your entire life

If you’ve been fantasising about starting over, quitting everything, or becoming someone else, this conversation will help you see what actually needs to change.

This is a grounded, psychology-led reset for people who want improvement without chaos.

This episode is part of a 10-day mini-series designed to help you start the year with clarity, calm confidence, and better self-leadership.

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Hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa, Do You F*cking Mind? delivers practical, science-backed mindset tools for anyone looking to cut through internal clutter and build a more resilient, self-directed life. This isn't abstract theory; it's applied neuroscience and psychology for your real-world problems. Each Monday, Alexis releases an in-depth episode exploring a single theme, dissecting topics like the mechanics of habit formation, navigating complex friendships, processing heartbreak, or cultivating a genuinely carefree approach to daily pressures. The focus is on actionable strategies, explaining not just what to do but how the brain works to make those changes stick. Then, every Friday, the format shifts to "Head Noise," a dedicated Q&A session where Alexis directly tackles listener-submitted questions, offering personalized insights and clarifications. The tone is direct, unapologetically candid, and free of fluff, mirroring the podcast's title. It’s a blend of rigorous science and street-smart wisdom, all aimed at empowering you to audit your own thoughts and behaviors. For those ready to move past passive listening and into active self-improvement, this podcast serves as a weekly mental toolkit. Listeners are encouraged to engage by sending their own questions for the Friday episodes.
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