7 Million School Days Lost in Victoria

7 Million School Days Lost in Victoria

Author: Dr Justin Coulson August 2, 2026 Duration: 14:30

Seven million school days were missed in Victoria last year. Is this a sign of a growing problem, or are parents finally putting their families first?

A new report has sparked fierce debate about school attendance. Should children ever miss school for a holiday, a family celebration or a mental health break?

Dr Justin and Kylie Coulson unpack what the numbers actually tell us, why so many families are choosing term-time travel, and whether chasing perfect attendance comes at a cost.

They explore what children gain from school, what they gain from time with family, and why the best decision isn't always the obvious one.

If you've ever wondered whether it's okay to pull your child out of school, this conversation will give you plenty to think about.

KEY POINTS

  • What the seven million missed school days really represent.
  • Why more families are travelling during school term.
  • The pressure schools place on perfect attendance.
  • How COVID changed the way many parents think about school.
  • What children can learn outside the classroom.
  • When missing school can be the right choice.
  • Why every family needs to weigh the trade-offs for themselves.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

"If you need to have some time off, if you want to take the kids out of school, do it."

RESOURCES MENTIONED

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

  • Make school attendance your starting point, not an unbreakable rule.
  • Before taking your child out of school, ask what they'll gain from the experience.
  • Talk with your child's teacher if they'll miss important learning.
  • Don't let guilt make the decision for you. Consider your child's learning, your family's circumstances and what matters most.

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Finding a clear path through the chaos of family life can feel overwhelming. Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families steps into that space with grounded, relatable conversations. Hosted by parenting expert Dr. Justin Coulson and his wife Kylie, this podcast feels like a honest chat with friends who truly understand the daily grind. Together, they draw from their own life raising six daughters, offering a common-sense perspective that resonates with parents everywhere. The discussions move beyond theory, focusing on practical strategies you can apply immediately to navigate common challenges and strengthen your relationships at home. Each episode aims to cut through the noise of conflicting advice, providing thoughtful insights that address real-world situations with empathy and evidence-based wisdom. Tuning into this podcast is like finding a moment of calm reflection in a busy week, a resource for building a more connected and joyful family culture. It’s a place where the complexities of parenting, culture, and society are explored through the lens of everyday experience, making the journey feel a little less solitary and a lot more manageable.
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