AI Reduces Memory

AI Reduces Memory

Author: Dr Justin Coulson May 13, 2026 Duration: 12:45

Your child finishes assignments faster than ever… but are they actually learning anything?

In this Doctor’s Desk episode, Justin and Kylie Coulson unpack two alarming new studies on how AI is changing the way kids think, learn, remember, and make decisions. From “cognitive offloading” to “cognitive surrender,” they explore why students using AI remembered less, trusted wrong answers more, and became increasingly dependent on technology to do the thinking for them.

If AI is becoming our children’s autopilot instead of their co-pilot, what happens to critical thinking, confidence, and real learning?

This conversation will challenge the way you think about ChatGPT, schoolwork, and the future of parenting in an AI-driven world.

KEY POINTS

  • Why students using AI remembered significantly less information
  • The hidden learning deficit created by cognitive offloading
  • How AI can weaken confidence in our own thinking
  • The shocking number of people who follow AI advice even when it’s wrong
  • Why “doing it the hard way” still matters for growth
  • The difference between getting outcomes and building capability
  • What parents need to teach kids before AI becomes their default brain

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“If you’re going for the growth, do it the hard way.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

  • Encourage kids to use AI as a helper, not a replacement thinker
  • Ask children to explain ideas in their own words after using AI
  • Prioritise learning and understanding over speed and convenience
  • Talk openly about AI mistakes, hallucinations, and misinformation
  • Create opportunities for kids to solve problems without technology assistance

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Finding a clear path through the chaos of family life can feel overwhelming. Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families steps into that space with grounded, relatable conversations. Hosted by parenting expert Dr. Justin Coulson and his wife Kylie, this podcast feels like a honest chat with friends who truly understand the daily grind. Together, they draw from their own life raising six daughters, offering a common-sense perspective that resonates with parents everywhere. The discussions move beyond theory, focusing on practical strategies you can apply immediately to navigate common challenges and strengthen your relationships at home. Each episode aims to cut through the noise of conflicting advice, providing thoughtful insights that address real-world situations with empathy and evidence-based wisdom. Tuning into this podcast is like finding a moment of calm reflection in a busy week, a resource for building a more connected and joyful family culture. It’s a place where the complexities of parenting, culture, and society are explored through the lens of everyday experience, making the journey feel a little less solitary and a lot more manageable.
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