Our Mind Tells Us Stories

You felt confident. Radiant. Unstoppable.

Then nothing changed… except your thoughts - and suddenly, everything looked wrong.

In this powerful episode, a simple set of family photos reveals a confronting truth: your mind is constantly telling stories - and many of them aren’t real.

What if the way you see your child, your partner… even yourself… isn’t truth, but a narrative you’ve unknowingly rehearsed?

This episode will change how you interpret behaviour, emotions, and the hard moments of family life - so you can raise more resilient kids (and be kinder to yourself in the process).

KEY POINTS

• Your brain can’t distinguish between imagination and reality - and your body reacts accordingly
• We all have a built-in negativity bias that distorts how we see people and situations
• You move towards what you focus on - in parenting, relationships, and life
• A simple language shift using “but” can completely reframe your thinking
• Kids absorb the stories we model - your mindset becomes their inner voice
• Negative thoughts are loud and bossy - positive ones are quieter and require intention

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Your mind is a great storyteller—let’s make sure it’s telling you great stories.”

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

• Catch the story: Notice when your thoughts shift negative - pause and question them
• Flip the “but”:
• “They’re driving me crazy, but they’re a good kid”
• Redirect your focus: Ask: What’s working right now?
• Model self-talk: Speak about yourself and your kids in ways you want them to internalise
• Turn down the noise: Be intentional about listening to the quieter, calmer thoughts
• Create better scripts: If reality feels hard, visualise what you want - your brain will follow

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