Playing Before Eating

Playing Before Eating

Author: Dr Justin Coulson April 19, 2026 Duration: 11:05

Could it be that your child’s uneaten lunch isn’t the problem… the schedule is?

A simple shift happening in Aussie schools is transforming behaviour, boosting learning, and - finally - getting kids to actually eat their food.

This episode unpacks the “play first, eat later” approach - and why it works far better than anything you can pack in a lunchbox.

If your child comes home hangry, exhausted, or with a full lunchbox… this might be the missing piece.

KEY POINTS

  • Why kids skip lunch (and it’s not about the food)
  • The “play first” model changing school behaviour and focus
  • How movement drives appetite, regulation, and learning
  • The hidden link between uneaten lunches and afternoon meltdowns
  • Why the last 10 minutes of playtime often trigger the biggest issues
  • A simple school-level change with measurable results

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Calories change kids. Food isn’t just fuel - it’s behaviour, focus, and emotional regulation.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

  • ABC News article on “play first, eat later” school model
  • Conversations with teachers and school communities
  • School P&C (Parents & Citizens) groups as a starting point for change

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

  • Start the conversation with your school or P&C about “play first”
  • Focus less on perfect lunches and more on eating opportunity
  • Talk with your child about when they feel hungry during the day
  • Advocate for structural changes - not just lunchbox fixes
  • Watch for after-school behaviour as a clue to under-fuelling

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Finding a clear path through the chaos of family life can feel overwhelming. Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families steps into that space with grounded, relatable conversations. Hosted by parenting expert Dr. Justin Coulson and his wife Kylie, this podcast feels like a honest chat with friends who truly understand the daily grind. Together, they draw from their own life raising six daughters, offering a common-sense perspective that resonates with parents everywhere. The discussions move beyond theory, focusing on practical strategies you can apply immediately to navigate common challenges and strengthen your relationships at home. Each episode aims to cut through the noise of conflicting advice, providing thoughtful insights that address real-world situations with empathy and evidence-based wisdom. Tuning into this podcast is like finding a moment of calm reflection in a busy week, a resource for building a more connected and joyful family culture. It’s a place where the complexities of parenting, culture, and society are explored through the lens of everyday experience, making the journey feel a little less solitary and a lot more manageable.
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