The Energy Game: Stop Running on Empty! [with Amantha Imber]

The Energy Game: Stop Running on Empty! [with Amantha Imber]

Author: Dr Justin Coulson July 28, 2026 Duration: 17:19

You're not imagining it. Parenting really does feel harder when you're running on empty.

If you've caught yourself wishing for just one day where nobody needs you, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar.

Organisational psychologist and bestselling author Dr Amantha Imber joins Dr Justin Coulson to explain why so many parents feel exhausted and what actually helps. No impossible morning routines. No guilt. Just practical, science-backed strategies you can use in minutes.

You'll learn why scrolling leaves you more tired, how to spot the type of fatigue you're dealing with, and the simple habits that can help you feel more like yourself again.

KEY POINTS

  • Why so many parents feel permanently exhausted.
  • The burnout fantasy that more people have than you'd expect.
  • The three types of energy that shape your day.
  • Fast, science-backed ways to boost energy in under a minute.
  • Why social media drains your brain instead of helping you recharge.
  • How better boundaries protect your energy without letting people down.
  • Small changes that leave you with more patience for your family.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

"We don't just have one energy account. We have three. The key is working out which one needs your attention first." – Dr Amantha Imber

RESOURCES MENTIONED

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

  • Work out whether your physical, mental or emotional energy is running lowest.
  • Swap one social media break for real rest this week.
  • Try a one-minute energy boost like peppermint or a splash of cold water.
  • Start answering requests with "Yes, but…" so you can set clear limits.
  • Write a "Never Again" list of commitments that leave you drained every time.

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Finding a clear path through the chaos of family life can feel overwhelming. Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families steps into that space with grounded, relatable conversations. Hosted by parenting expert Dr. Justin Coulson and his wife Kylie, this podcast feels like a honest chat with friends who truly understand the daily grind. Together, they draw from their own life raising six daughters, offering a common-sense perspective that resonates with parents everywhere. The discussions move beyond theory, focusing on practical strategies you can apply immediately to navigate common challenges and strengthen your relationships at home. Each episode aims to cut through the noise of conflicting advice, providing thoughtful insights that address real-world situations with empathy and evidence-based wisdom. Tuning into this podcast is like finding a moment of calm reflection in a busy week, a resource for building a more connected and joyful family culture. It’s a place where the complexities of parenting, culture, and society are explored through the lens of everyday experience, making the journey feel a little less solitary and a lot more manageable.
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