How to Heal Your Heart & Find Love Without Settling with Matthew Hussey

How to Heal Your Heart & Find Love Without Settling with Matthew Hussey

Author: Lori Harder | YAP Media August 31, 2026 Duration: 1:14:40
Are you loving yourself, others, and your life in a way that truly serves you? In this episode, I sit down with Matthew Hussey, who has spent over 15 years helping millions of people raise their standards, build meaningful relationships, and navigate the challenges that come with finding love. We talk about how your past experiences shape your relationships, why you may chase the wrong things, and how the stories you tell yourself can make heartbreak even harder. Get ready to raise your standards and build the kind of love and life you truly want. Check out our Sponsors: Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy. Monarch Money -  Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at http://Monarch.com with code EYH. Northwest Registered Agent - Visit http://northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree and start using free resources to build something amazing. Fabric - Join the thousands of parents who trust Fabric to help protect their family. Apply today in just minutes at http://meetfabric.com/earn. Indeed - Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. Momentous - If you want to try Momentous Signature Spec Creatine, head to http://livemomentous.com and use code EARN for up to 35% off your entire first order. Brevo - Meet Brevo…the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today—or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to http://www.brevo.com/happy HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 The one shift that changes how you love yourself, others & your life. 04:45 Why understanding your love languages can strengthen your relationships. 10:30 The 3 relationships that determine the quality of your life. 16:15 Do you really need to “fix yourself” before finding love? 21:00 The red flags people miss and finding love again after heartbreak. 25:00 Rewriting the stories you tell yourself that can make heartbreak even harder. 34:30 Are you chasing the wrong things in relationships? 40:00 Tips to overcome the fear of rejection and have more vulnerable conversations. 48:45 How to create deeper and more genuine connections. 53:00 The Daniel Radcliffe story that changed Matthew’s perspective on pain. 57:00 Can your “baggage” become the thing that makes someone love you more? 01:04:15 The book for anyone struggling to find love and feel worthy of it. 01:08:15 There’s nothing shameful about wanting to find love. RESOURCES Get your copy of Matthew’s Book “Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)” HERE Learn more about Loop at loriharder.com/loop Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Matthew: @thematthewhussey

Hosted by entrepreneur and author Lori Harder, Earn Your Happy is a raw and relatable look at what it actually takes to build a meaningful life and business. This podcast lives in the messy middle ground between a bold vision and its realization, exploring the risks, the failures, and all those moments of doubt that nobody talks about on a polished highlight reel. Lori’s conversations are grounded in real experience-her own journey as a founder and host-and they cut through the noise of typical business advice. You’ll hear honest stories about the rollercoaster of chasing big goals, where laughter and vulnerability are just as important as strategy. It’s this authentic, no-BS approach that has resonated with so many, earning the show recognition as a top entrepreneurship podcast. Each episode feels like a candid talk with a friend who’s been there, offering not just inspiration but practical perspectives for navigating your own path. Tune in for a dose of reality that’s as motivating as it is genuine, proving that building something you love is never a straight line.
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