Everyday Buddhism 119 - Spreading Joy

Everyday Buddhism 119 - Spreading Joy

Author: Wendy Shinyo Haylett October 11, 2025 Duration: 27:58

It's been a long time since I've done a solo episode of this podcast and I've been getting requests for a bit more of those to include along with the guest episodes. And this episode is one of those.

In this episode I reflect on the Fifth Realization from the sutra, The Eight Realizations of Great Beings. The Fifth Realization, as translated by Thich Nhat Hanh says:

Ignorance is the cause of the endless rounds of birth and death. Bodhisattvas always listen to and learn from others so their understanding and skillful means can develop and so they can teach living beings and bring them great joy.

My reflection includes a call for us not to try to "know" things but to listen. Plus, to try to help and serve others—and, ultimately, bring joy—by listening.

If we don't feel or witness a lot of joy under the weight of the times, it's because there are so many of us talking and "knowing" what's right ... and not many of us listening.

I end with a call to for us to help or offer positivity to at least one person every day ... to bring joy!


Link (Amazon affiliate) to the book, The Eight Realizations of Great Beings by Brother Phap Hai:

The Eight Realizations of Great Beings

Links to the two-part episode about the Sutra on the Plum Village podcast, The Way Out is In:

Part 1:
https://plumvillage.org/podcast/the-eight-realizations-of-great-beings-part-one-episode-82

Part 2:

https://plumvillage.org/podcast/the-eight-realizations-of-great-beings-part-two-episode-83
 


 
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You might find yourself wondering how ancient Buddhist principles could possibly fit into the rush of a modern workday or the quiet complexities of your personal relationships. Everyday Buddhism: Making Everyday Better explores exactly that, without pretense or esoteric jargon. Hosted by Wendy Shinyo Haylett, who brings her perspective as an author, teacher, and behavioral coach, each conversation feels like a practical dialogue. The ideas discussed aren't about retreating from the world, but about engaging with it more skillfully and with less personal turmoil. You'll hear how mindfulness and compassion translate into actionable strategies for dealing with stress, communication breakdowns, and the general noise of daily life. This podcast treats Buddhist teachings as a lived experience, offering reflections and methods that feel immediately applicable. Whether you're well-versed in spirituality or simply curious, Wendy’s guidance is grounded and clear, focusing on the tangible ways these age-old insights can create more space and resilience. Tune in for a thoughtful companion on the path to making each day a little more manageable and meaningful.
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