Lets talk about people pleasers on FOCUS Females Global Chat Cafe

Lets talk about people pleasers on FOCUS Females Global Chat Cafe

Author: C. Maria Wall, JD August 24, 2016 Duration: 58:19
Tonight is all about being "people pleasers" from the : The GRIND and SHINE for today: 08/11/2016 3:01am I am Sorry! Many times we find ourselves saying we are sorry then asking forgiveness without knowing what we are sorry for.  OK enough about that type of sorry today I am talking about being sorry from another view.  Time for some of us to be SORRY because we keep forgetting that some people only appear to love, respect, care for and be concerned about us when they are in need of something we possess.  That something could be a listening ear, money or some other service. I am not saying change the person you are BUT I am saying that we should keep in mind that what we do for those people is not a RIGHT but a PRIVILEGE! They need to understand and realize that at times.  Society has bred a culture of ENTITLEMENT and DISRESPECT.  Be reminded that many will do what they know they can get away with.  Develop boundaries and know the POWER of your NO.  If you keep giving, your cup will be emptied and you will not have anything left to drink for yourself. Our FOCUS for today: Talk to the person you see in the mirror and let them know how SORRY you are for not realizing that they matter to some only when the users are in need of something the person you see in the mirror possesses.  Ask for forgiveness, tell that reflection the power of their NO then move on. C. Maria Wall  

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At the F.O.C.U.S 40 Plus Global Chat Cafe!, host C. Maria Wall, JD, creates a conversational space that feels like pulling up a chair at a favorite table. While centered on the perspectives of women over forty, the dialogue is inclusive, recognizing that the themes explored resonate widely. This podcast delves into the nuanced challenges and rich opportunities that come with decades of life experience, moving through categories from personal relationships and cultural shifts to societal expectations and continuous self-improvement. As the founder of F.O.C.U.S.-Females Offering Clarity, Unity, and Success-Maria brings her background as "The Voice of Relationship Recovery" to these discussions, but the scope extends far beyond any single topic. Listeners will hear authentic exchanges about navigating career pivots, redefining purpose, managing complex family dynamics, and cultivating resilience in a changing world. It’s less about finding easy answers and more about sharing the clarity that emerges from honest conversation. The global chat cafe atmosphere means every episode offers a sense of community and collective wisdom, making this a unique destination for anyone interested in the deeper, often unspoken, aspects of adult life. Tune in for the kind of talk that leaves you thinking, reflecting, and feeling connected.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 99

F.O.C.U.S 40 Plus Global Chat Cafe!
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Duration: 1:59:59
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Duration: 45:00
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