#071 Why Do We Believe the Bad Stuff?

#071 Why Do We Believe the Bad Stuff?

Author: Suzanne Andora Barron May 17, 2024 Duration: 4:59
If five people said something nice about you and one person said something mean, what would you focus on? I asked my high school juniors this today. There were about 13 of them present and all of them, except one said they would focus on the mean thing. One student said the good, and I was so proud of him because most of us, myself included would focus on the bad. Why is that? We have to practice believing the positive; believin...

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#0106 Guided Meditation - Imagine Meeting Yourself for the First Time [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:49
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#0105 - Do you waste your energy on things that don't matter? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:24
My husband told me this today when I told him about a conversation I had had a few weeks ago and how I'd respond differently next time. He said, "You waste a lot of energy on things that don't matter." It gave me pause a…
#103 Are you remembering to breath? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:31
It's a few days before Christmas and Hanukkah and I have a question for you. Are you breathing? I know it sounds silly because of course you're breathing. You have to breathe to live. But when we get overwhelmed with our…
#102 Do You Take Time to Notice Your Thoughts? You Should.... [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 4:55
Have you ever taken the time to notice what you're thinking? Unless it's a practice, you likely don't. We think our thoughts are who we are. We hear them, think they're true and live accordingly. But when we take time to…
#101 The Gifts of Grief 2.0 with Cecilia Mannella [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:35
Today I'm sharing with you, "The gifts of grief," my interview with Cecilia Mannella. It's very fitting that I'm resharing this episode today, December 4th because it's the anniversary of my dad's death. My dad would be…
#098 What Have You Decided You're Too Old to Do? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 8:48
What have you decided you're too old to do? Recently I turned 60. I can't believe I'm admitting it to you because it sounds too old. But my dad, whose birthday happens to be today, never let age stop him. In his 60's and…