This Was Slightly Less On Fire When I Left...

This Was Slightly Less On Fire When I Left...

Author: Hecate July 6, 2022 Duration: 1:04:08
We're back! In this episode I'll be sharing what I've been up to on my break, what I have planned for this season of the podcast, and I'll be talking about a really rough day I had last week in the wake of Roe vs Wade being overturned. Letters for the Fire is back in Season 4! This is a listener participation project. I am inviting survivors to write a letter to their r*pist or abuser and then send it to me. It's is my hope that this will help others with catharsis and closure. I want you to...

Hosted by Hecate, Finding OK-Healing After Sexual Assault and Abuse is a space built on the understanding that sharing stories is an act of collective strength. This podcast moves through the complex, non-linear terrain of recovery with a focus that is both intersectional and deeply personal. Conversations here are grounded in real experiences, exploring what recovery, self-care, and empowerment can look like when forged from a place of trauma. You'll hear from survivors and experts alike, discussing practical strategies for navigating daily life, the nuances of mental and physical wellness, and the cultural contexts that shape our healing journeys. It’s not about reaching a fictional finish line, but rather about mapping a path toward a different kind of okay. Each episode acknowledges the weight of the experience while making room for hope and resilience, reinforcing that no one has to walk this road in isolation. Tune in for a candid, compassionate resource that meets you where you are.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 91

Finding OK - Healing After Sexual Assault and Abuse
Podcast Episodes
Cult Recovery - Healing After NXIVM [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:08:33
Kelly Thiel exited the notorious NXIVM cult and shares her journey with healing and deprogramming in the aftermath of indoctrination. She has taken her power back and is helping others to do the same. Kelly is an accompl…
Thriving After Sexual Abuse [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:49:12
Denise Bossarte is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and now she is helping others heal. Join us for a conversation about Denise's healing journey as well as her beautiful book, "Thriving After Sexual Abuse: Break You…
Deconstructing Religious Abuse [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:03:56
Anna grew up in a fundamentalist Christian family as part of the Quiverfull movement. She and her six siblings were not allowed to attend school and were very isolated from the outside world. Everything about her childho…
Death and Rebirth Cycles - Shedding Your Skin [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 10:42
We all experience Death/Rebirth Cycles in our lives, periods of profound transformation and growth. These cycles are often painful and difficult. In this episode I share something that has helped me to better keep my bal…
Coercion Isn't Consent - A Personal Story [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:03
This is a personal and raw episode where I share the story of one of my assaults. Coercion isn't consent. Two Hundred "No's" and one "Yes" is still "No". If you have a similar story, you are not alone and it wasn't your…
Rise Above Your Story [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:01:44
Join me for a beautiful talk with Sandra Cooze. Sandra is an intuitive mentor and coach, spiritual advisor, advanced soul realignment practitioner, jewelry designer, loving wife and mother, and the author of, “Journey to…
Post-Trauma Kink Shaming and Sexuality [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:36:40
Sage rejoins me for this episode as we laugh and cover some pretty intense subjects. We discuss post-trauma kink shaming, sex, sexuality, and physical responses. We are sexual beings and trauma can affect us all in very…
Letters for the Fire - An Invitation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 8:27
Letters for the Fire is an invitation for survivors to write a letter to their rapist or abuser and send it to me. It is one of the deepest honors of my life to hold this space. I want to find more ways to help facilitat…
Animal Pharmacy [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:41:15
Cara Elizabeth is the creator of the Animal Pharmacy Deck. Cara is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and when she couldn't find the healing tools that worked for her she created her own. . Cara Elizabeth is an artist…
Healing in the Wake of Addiction [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:13:00
NJ Lechnir joins me to discuss his book, "Addiction, Loss and Recovery: How to Deeply Understand the Mindset of Addictive Behavior and Win the Battle". NJ shares the difficulties of growing up with an alcoholic father, h…